what can i do to save my marriage ?
October 18th, 2009 by admin | Filed in Save My Marriage
i jealous too much.
we have been married at least for 5 years.since my wife met his ex-boy friend my marriage started to fill a part.
Tags: boy friend, marriage
Pay attention to her! I can’t stress that enough. If she’s not getting attention at home she’ll seek it elsewhere. Do the things that you did when you were dating or when you were first married. It doesn’t have to be anything big or some big ordeal. Call her during the day just to let her know you thought of her. Thank her for the little things she does. Pay attention to her appearance. Tell her you love her. Ask her how her day was. What made it a good day or a bad day. These little things make a big difference.
Communicate more. And listen. Be attentive and try to understand what she feels she is missing between the two of you.
be romantic draw attention to yourself, and start being more fun! make yourself seem super interesting and happy!!
Have a little talk about what is important with all involved
open communication, that’s the best way. tell her what u feel and ask her about her opinion
you need to talk it out and do the little things.. because thats what counts.
Just keep reminding youself that she married YOU for a reason. And that there is and EX in ex-boyfriend for a reason. If she wanted to be with him, she would have been. But she didnt, and she’s with you.
Try marriage counseling
be nice.
Talk to her, only way to solve your problems
Try talking to her about this situation, she might not want to listen but still talk to her something out of what you talk will go in to her. if your love have been true to to her she can’t go far with this guy cos she’ll start to compear the both of you and she’ll miss you. so keep faith in your love. (that is if you have been true to her)
talk to your wife and see what he says and it might just be your imagination
Is it that your marriage started to fall apart or you have?
There must have been trouble before this guy resurfaced.
so I think you should take a look back on where the real trouble began. Examine yourself to find out why you are a jealous person where does your insecurities come from you or her really?
What is it about this ex guy that you feel inadequate? does he have a better job/ got along with her parents, better in bed or so you think?
I think the answer is in you have to be honest then talk about it with your wife so the healing can begin.
GL
PS Good Job in admitting you are jealous it is a start.
In jealousy there is more self-love than love. ~François, Duc de La Rochefoucauld, Maxims, 1665
with out trust you are miserable.
think: did you marry someone that is that dirty to you that they would seriously fool around, knowing how much it would hurt you.
if you answer yes then the marriage isn’t worth saving.
if not then, though it’s hard, relax and don’t be too nice to cover your insecurities and don’t apologize.
get counseling, if she not willing then she not worth it. saved my wife and i on a few occasions. remember cost money but still cheaper to keep her. time heals things.