Breaking up and getting back together…?
Hello. So my boyfriend of a year and a half is moving out of state for college and we decided to break up for a while, be our own people, and maybe get back together. We are going to stay in touch and write letters and stuff, but see other people. I was just thinking about how I love him but I dont know if he is the one I am supposed to end up with, If it is the right one will you just know, and not hesitate? This might be my depression talking… but I dunno. Its just unsettling because I cannot really picture us old together, but at the same time I want to be with him and get back together. I do love him. Is this just me being young and unsure or if I am not sure is there no point in getting back together with him eventually. I just want to stress that I know that I am young, if I do settle down it wont be until I am 30 or older. I am in no rush.
Basically, I just want to know if when you meet the person that you want to be with, you just KNOW. Or if there is any uncertainty.
And I’m not unsure of my love for him. I am very very sure of that.
Tags: depression, Hello, rush, uncertainty, write letters
You can love someone but not want to be with them. I think the split will give youand him time to see if its what you both want
Time will heal, you are doing the right thing.
Basically you will just know. If you can only picture the best with you and your your soul mate you are meant to be. The only uncertainty is being scared of growing up. Its good to keep in mind that you are young, but the thing is to remember is to not be afraid of growing up and that’s what could be holding you back from having a better life.