How can I get my ex-boyfriend back even with him not talking to me?
October 22nd, 2009 by admin | Filed in Get Your Ex Back
Me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago and I still have insane feelings for him. I really want him back but he wont talk to me and its been really hard for me to move on because every guy i pretty much talk to/text reminds me of him. Idkk if he still has feelings for me but i know I do for sure. Help PLEASE! (:
Tags: 5 months, Ex Boyfriend, feelings
Hey
Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of these negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can’t achieve the goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Bad thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.
2.Don’t bother your ex boyfriend. Boys just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously him, [spin]text message him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It’s better to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your lovely ex back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, get some new makeup. more recommended things to get are new clothes and new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start doing some exercises and try to eat healthy foods. When looking good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back. For more tips on how to get ex boyfriend back and relationship advice check the great blog of Mike and Dianne. Here’s the address:
http://backwithextips.com
I hope that you will get your ex boyfriend back soon!
just quit thinking about him and move on…
if u guys are meant to be together HE will come back to you…
neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr chase a guy, i never have, and i never WILL
5 months. its certainly over. its very over. its over. its toooo over over over already.
why have you not let go? even though you broke up, did you and he still have any contact?
Find someone else. He obviously does not love you back.
Communication is what will get you to know what he feels. Either directly finding a way to talk to him or indirectly talking to him – there is no other way to know.
If he doesn’t want to stay with you, then you will need to move on.
um throiw a fruit at his head then hilll 4 sure notice u:)
Go to bed kid, it’s past your bedtime!
Hes not talking to you either because he WANTS to move on or he HAS. I know it hurts, I’m in a similar situation. Keep trying to move on. YOU WILL.
Everything happens for a reason.. message him on the computer, try talking to him in real life even if he dont talk to you..
And sometimes this happens.. if nothing is changeing over time, let it settle and just think positive
Try to do some fun things to get ur mind off it:D
Answer mine?
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He doesn’t love you back…but you can always try seducing him back, I would love it if i were him lol
you done , just move on
What a good man….at least he’s not the kind to lead you on.
Sweetie, time to find someone else to obsess about.
im sorry, he really doesnt have feelings for you. move on.
there is ABSOLUTELY NO POSSIBLE way to get him back now.
but the good news is that you can find someone else. so plz dont worry about this anymore.
answer mine plz
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good god, if he doesnt even talk to you what are you thinking? Leave him alone before he gets a restraining order against ya
My way is calling them. If they really don’t wanna talk to you txt them and just explain or tell him what you want to say…but don’t try too hard you dont want to annoy them lol jk…A lot of the time with relationships people just need time before they are ready to talk again.
Don’t. This is coming from a guys perspective so take it or leave it. The idea is to forget. Forget about him. Your heart can be misleading. Now, i’m not sure i’ve ever been in love buts its been particullarly easy for me to move on. If you find it hard, then that means its suppose to be. There will come a time you will forget about him. There was a girl that i thought i loved 6 monthes ago. I’ve forgotten her name. Really it doesn’t matter if you take this advice or not, Its just that iv’e become emotionally hardened, perhaps its for the best.
get him drunk and have sex with him
I’ve just split up with my boyfriend for the second time in about.. 8 months, I broke us up both times because of things that have been going on in my life and I felt I was taking it out on him and I didn’t wanna do that. He was quite bitter about it the first time I broke up with him, and then we were mates and he dated some others, but I didn’t.. then he asked me if I’d get back with him and i said yeh.. then his ex, who he has told me he still likes alooottt, moved in with him because she wasn’t getting on with her parents at all. he’s 17 and she’s 18… and things at home got even worse for me, so I split up with him.. It’s been like.. 4 days.. but i still love him soo much! and he knows that, but all my mates say he’s been an idiot, and i agree, but i still love him.. all I can do, is move on, and get on with the rest of my life, why should I waste time on someone who clearly doesn’t care about me anymore.. and plus, he told me exactly how he’s going to try and get back with his ex who lives with him.. nice I know.. :/ lads are idiots..
MOVE ON!
forget about him
u will eventually for not even talking to him
but u have to get over him ASAP so u can just stop worrying about this
I feel hell sorry for you. I fell hard for my ex and we broke up like 10 months ago. Im over him now! lol. But it took a long time since we were seeing each other every now and then, but he was just using me. Dont chase him. You can wait it out a little longer or try and ‘accidently’ bump into him and strike up a conversation. If he doesn’t love you then you haver to move on and find someone who really does.
talk to him then
we arnt here to tell you what you should do to your life
thats your choice
just 4get bout him n go on in life,stop thinking bout him.if not u r the one who will b very worry.so just go on in life.don’t worry u can get a better bf in life.god always will help u.if he really love u means he will talk to u some how??????????it’s allrdi 5 months so plzzzzzzz try to 4get him n go on in life of coz u can get a better bf who really love u alot n care bout u.soooooooooo plzzzzzzzzzzz don’t worry alot.god blez u.
He may be, but why worry. He’s your ex for a reason. Some men can play that game real good by acting as if they are still interested when the only thing they want is that between your legs. I’ve been there and that’s why I stay away from my ex’s that I was in love with. I found better men than them anyway, same may go for them. Keep it moving, too many good men out there.
If you are the one who called this relationship off. I will strongly recommend that you back off and move on because, you judged at a point that this person wasn’t adequate for you so, what makes you think the next time this incident or act occurs you would not back off.
And if you are not getting any of your calls and txt msgs returned, do not insist, at this point it’s about how he feels not how you feel. Push to hard and you could be wasting valuable time to meet someone great. Remember your better days are not behind you but ahead of you.
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you want to:
http://www.exbackguides.com/
First off, determine if you really and truly want his attention (you may be thinking, ‘Of course I do,’ but please slow down and think this over).
If you decide he’s worth it, here’s what you must do: Back away slowly.
This is not for sissies, but trust me, it’s the only way you’re ever going to get him back. It takes discipline. It takes self-love. And you must do it.