Broken heart and healing?
I dated my ex for about 7 months. We had a good relationship, he seemed to be really in love with me and I loved him as well. However, he had a lot of insecurities during our relationship that made it difficult for both of us. Even though he had problems, I wanted to work through it. However, he ended up breaking it off with me anyways. I really wasn’t even sure why we broke up and I still had a feeling in my heart that he loved me. However, I found out that a mere two weeks after we broke up, he already had a new girlfriend.
I’m really confused. I can’t tell if he’s completely moved on (which is fine) or if he’s in a rebound relationship. Even on the day of our break up, he told me he loved me. We haven’t talked in 3 weeks. I don’t want to be with him anymore, but how should one deal with this situation specifically in terms of healing? Any advice is appreciated.
Tags: 7 months, broken heart, girlfriend, good relationship, heart, insecurities, love, new girlfriend, rebound relationship
A supportive hug to you, doll.
I’ve been where you’re at now: seen a gf go from "I love you" to showing off her new bf in under 24 hours!
Best thing for you is to get some distance & time from him.
That’s the worse thing: that it’ll take time to get over him. The other girl may be a rebound for him but that shouldn’t matter. What should matter is you! Get your support system of friends & take it day by day (or hour to hour if need be). Eventually (and its different for everyone and for every relationship) you’ll feel the pain get less & less. Just be careful you don’t rebound as a good friend of mine did.
She got the heave ho and was heartbreakingly sad for 2+ weeks. Then she started going out again & being social. Then she met a guy. And they went out. Next thing I know they’re meeting each other’s families and she’ll waver from ‘oh its just a fling’ to off-handly looking at Modern Bride magazine!
Good luck!
you luck experience and thats obvious.
Move on honey and never look back. Just remember the mistakes and try to be better next time.
You was good..yes i guess…..but all make mistakes.
Sad to say, but if he moved on that quickly, he probably had his eye on this little chickie before you broke up. He was telling you he loved you because he didn’t want to hurt your feelings. Im sure he does care about you, but doesn’t feel that you are right for him.
Just give it time. Soon, you will barely remember his name.