Breakup pain — How do I cope?
July 25th, 2009 by admin | Filed in Getting Over An Ex
I am in so much pain because of this breakup … and it’s been 5 months. I’ve never felt anything like this — I don’t know how anyone survives. I’ve never felt so emotionally raped. How do I cope? How do I not become a bitter, sour woman (I feel like I’m heading that way)?
Tags: 5 months
Think about it this way:
We are all born alone and we die alone.
When you are in your casket someday, the man who broke your heart will NOT be there with you.
You are just as important as he is now and evermore.
Cheer up!! There are many men out there that would LOVE to meet you.
Guido
best way to get over one guy is to find another one
hey huney. i know it hurts but there’ll be another guy. look for one. lorraine’s rite. find another man. i hope u feel better real soon. =>
that’s only one fish in an ocean of millions you’ll find another
be stong and move on!! i know its hard but you don’t want to be sad all your life.. here my email address if you need a friend.. efrain78223@yahoo.com
Usually it takes about 1year but you will be fine.It happens more than once in your life time.Just try a get a life.If you have a job get some over time.Go to a few xmas partys.Try doing somthing for yourself and just forget about your breakup.I no that is hard to do some times.It has happened to women alot and you only stay bitter for 1year.I no that first hand.Good luck!!!Sorry for your loss!!
Find another one! You obviously weren’t meant to be together so you just gotta be strong and move on.
breaking up is never easy dear. people have different ways to get over a relationship went bad. some focus on their work, families, friends or find a new man/woman. but i suggest all except for the latter. simply because getting into a new relationship may not be as healthy for now. the logic i am trying to get to is this: how can you give yourself to another person when you yourself have not yet finished picking up the pieces? how can you get into a good relationship if you yourself know that you came into it with emotional baggages? plus, won’t it be unfair to the one you’re hooking up with most especially if that person is looking for a serious relationship? and the bottomline is or the biggest question(s) you should ask yourself is, are you happy with yourself and are you ready to embark on another relationship and take that same risk again? once your answer is yes to both, then go ahead and find a new guy. and disregard my advice mentioned above, if you mean looking for a new guy is you’re just set on finding a fling or a rebound relationship with no strings attached, then go for it! you are an adult and you can do whatever the heck makes you happy. goodluck and take care.
hello,
i am no expert but I would suggest that you keep yourself busy.
For starters, try playing a new sport, try going to the gym. A former gf once told me a story that in a failed love affair, there are four important entities namely love, pain, wisdom and time. Time being the greatest of all, can remove both love and pain.
So anyways, while waiting for father time, get off your couch and start doing something to make yourself better. For whatever reason you want to study a sport or lose weight or what not, it doesnt matter. As for finding another man, wait for father time a little bit. So that you can have a fresh perspective of your breakup and who you are.
That is all for now, hope it helps.