How would I deal with getting dumped the 1st time ever? 10 points?
November 13th, 2009 by admin | Filed in Getting Back Together
Im 14
I love my girlfriend sooo much…
But I think its creeping up that im gonna get dumped.
She’s also my 1st Girlfriend…
I can’t imagine what it would be like without her.
I sound loony, but seriously, but i have suicidal thoughts when i imagine loosing her.
How do I cope with getting dumped if i do?
Many thanks xxxxxx
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Well before you just imagine you’ll "get dumped", think about what you’ve been doing to make her want to dump you. Have you stopped hugging or kissing her much, or at all? Has your timing been a little off? Have you stopped calling her? Try to improve everything in that way and just tell her straight up "baby, I can tell you don’t like me as much as you used to. I’m not mad, I’m just worried so what can I do to stay with you? I really don’t want you to break up with me." And if she still does, that’ll be tough. Just imagine all the other girls you can date that you’ll probably feel the same way about. Good luck pal.
Realize that you’re only 14, and she is only a girl. Killing yourself wouldn’t solve anything.
masturbation solves everything
do not kill yourself over a girl. you can live without her, i promise. & your only 14, you will probaly have a bunch of other girlfriends in your life.
You’ll be over it in a while and look back and think… wow that was pathetic of me I shouldn’t had more respect for myself.
Grow a pair and have a conversation with her about it.
Watch this video have a few laughs but most importantly listen to the advice! its funny but also true
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v
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time heals all wounds. this my be the first of many times that u might be rejected, not just by a girl, but also in life. hopefully with each passing day u will get thro it, she may not have been the one for u. there r plenty of other girls. stay focused on ur life and not just on her. u need to move on.
dude, its ur first girlfriend. u’ll be fine. theres tons of other girls out there but enjoy being single for a while before u get into another relationship
just sigh let that big hunk of sorrow slide down the back of your throut and move on. have considered start drinking? or smokin weed?
your first girlfriend may seem really important, but if she dumps you, she dumps you. This sounds tacky, but "there are always more fish in the sea"
Okay first of all dnt think bout it shes your first girl & maybe even your first love . Your gonna lose alot of girls your 14 your still young . Life is life breakups are bound to happen.. You just gotta learn how to deal with them . If she really doesn like you she wouldnt breakup with you Glad to help :] BTW im 14 & ive gone through alot of BAD breakup & even cutted myself for it but you just gotta move on okay :]
your only 14 if she breaks up with u just think about it in a way thts says God didnt want us to be together and he has another girl waiting for me when im ready dont kill yourself
act like you don’t care and make her jelous
First Girlfriends usually seem like that.
But your only 14 and you have many girlfriends ahead of you.
If she doesn’t like you enough, it’s
not worth wasting your time over.
Your still young! It’s hard but you’ll get
through it I promise. It just takes time.
1) You aren’t getting dumped yet, and you really care about her, so I’m not sure this fear is warranted.
2) If you love her that much, then you want her to be happy, right? So if she’s happier without you, it’s better, right?
3) Don’t kill yourself over a girl. Actually, edit: don’t kill yourself ever. You survived before her, you’ll survive after her. and maybe it’ll suck for awhile, but you’ll eventually get back on your feet.
4) If you do spend a lot of time worrying about this, it might cause her to dump you because you’re acting depressed. Just take it if/when it comes. Don’t preemptively worry about it.
it happened to my ex boyfriend honey, and i felt so bad when i broke up with him. we went out for a year and i was his first girlfriend, and i loved him but he loved me so much more. it hurt when i had to leave him but i still talk to him now and hes getting through it as easily as he can. ill never know what he went through firsthand but he got over it and if he can you can too. remember there will never be another first girlfriend and youll never forget her but there will be other girls you will remember for more than being your first ;] i wish you the best hun. im your age bytheway
boy there are millions of fish in the sea.. there are a lot of beautiful girls in this earth.. some more beautiful than your girlfriend.. some as beautiful as your girlfriend.. some not as beautiful as your girlfriend but their attitudes are beautiful.. and 14 is still to young.. just remember there are a lot and i mean A LOT of girls in this world .. am sure someone will like you back in return in case your girl dumps you..
You’re 14, you have no idea what true "love" is. Don’t let ONE stupid break up ruin your life. Get over her. Move on. Find someone else.
If she dumps you, then she obviously is NOT worth your time, okay?
Don’t start with the suicidal thoughts either. And don’t say that you can’t help it. Yes. You can.
Gah, jeez people. Don’t let a break up ruin your whole life, especially when you’re young. It’s stupid.
Step back and get some perspective. Did you ever think you were going to meet "the one" at this young of an age and stick with her forever? Losing first loves are so painful, but it doesn’t have to be suicidally so. Accept the bittersweet feeling – knowing that it was a great experience, and looking forward to have more experiences with girls as you search for just the right one. It’s an adventure, not a mission! You don’t commit to a single course of action and stick with it to death (mission). Your goal is to live a life filled with many different experiences.
If you think your girlfriend is going to dump you then obviously she’s not the right one for you.
Think of it this way…..if your deeply in love with her, do you deserve to feel like your not making her happy. if you make her happy then she wouldn’t dump you. Your 14 so there’s nothing to worry about.
Suicidal thoughts? Get some help because i know someone that got psychosis from thinking that they would loose their girlfriend. In the end the couple were together for about 3 years but the girlfriend said she felt very tolerant to be with the boyfriend. Anyway long story short…it was my girlfriend. I’m not the one with psychosis it was her ex boyfriend. Anyway be strong and you’ll find the right person eventually. Your not like in your older ages yet so you have shit loads of time. Good luck mate
Oh, please! Do not be stupid! Killing yourself over a girl at 14!? That’s insane. You have so much life ahead of you and there are going to be a lot of girls. There’s only one, very true, statement that kind of helps..
It will all get better in time. Trust me on that one.
don’t think that way if she can’t see the good in you than she must not be all that either. get dumped at 14 is normal you move on and find another girl. Not worth killing yourself over. You will soon find out that more fish in the Sea and maybe even a better chance. Remember every time a door is closed a window opens up
when youre dead you will not be happy TRUST me =] but if you do end up killing your self i would like to end up in your will……. Kidding lol =]
dont kill yourself TRUST ME but anyway chocolate helps just dont try to make her jealous or something try to be friends also ask her how she really feels cause maybe if you act all wierd around her it will CAUSE her to dump you and also dont quickly jump to the next available girl trust me i know tons of things like that that ended up badly… wait and get over it before you get back out there but that does not mean you you cant have fun though
You are going to go through a dozen more girls in your life time and so it is part of relationships . Some you win , some you lose but since you are not ready for a long term commitment thing at this point anyway , why sweat it ? You are going to get through this and move on with someone else . I know right now you think you wont or do not want to but in about a week you will see that it was for the best and who knows what is around the corner waiting for you and no i am not talking street corners , it is just an expression thing. You are going to be fine and if she wants to dump you then just laugh it off and say ok well we had a blast girl but i understand . Hey i will see ya next week around school so take care until then. Laugh it off , it is better for your health and the killing yourself thing , no you will not , if you were serious about that you would not be in here typing this question , and frankly i do not feel sorry for you . It is crap. You need to learn to play the game right and i do not think that is in the rules , so play nice or do not play at all. ok? Ok now laugh it off and have fun , why get so serious right now heck , just go out there and have fun while you can, you are going to have a lot of headaches and heart aches while growing up and this is just puppy love , nothing serious here anyway.
if ur gonna get dumped….that means that person was not the right one and that theres other pretty smart girls out there for you….u will eventually find the right girll…dont get all depressed and think about suicidal stuff…be positive and think about the good side…ur free!!!! u can get better girls…..and they can make u feel happy and loved even more!!!!!!!
usually ppls first relationships are a flop..and it goes nowhere ..u think yup shes the one!!! but sumtimes it doesnt go that way …and u think its the end of the world but its not!!!