How do i get my wife to love me again?
November 13th, 2009 by admin | Filed in Save My Marriage
well it has been a long treacherous 8yrs for my wife and i and i am wondering now that we are going through problems and barely talking how can I get my wife to fall inlove with me again how can i stop her from being so angry with me.
Find out what caused the problems in the first place and fix them!!! Make sure you take any blame equally!!!
tell her about your feeling and be romantic.that helps
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Did you do something to make her angry with you? How about renewing your wedding vows- ask her to marry you again, take her on a second honeymoon, maybe somewhere she have always wanted to go (that’s if you can afford it).Just do something you know she loves.
Be yourself. You know her better. You guys can take a break from one another to revive your connection…tell her you love her, take her out, etc. all the best!
Tell her you love her. show it to her! Give her little surprises amd take her out for dinner or a nice vacation . Never give up!
suprising a women always helps..try suprising her with little ifts but dont be obviuos..maybe take her out to a fancy restraunt and give her flowers adn maybe gve her massages and sweet talk her..eventually she will come around..
It is so simple. Strt with a good morning darling. Try to help her little in her morning work. Tell her she is looking pretty. Try to converse with her. Give phone calls to her during your office breaks.tell her you suddently reminded of your early days of marriage and your first meeting etc etc. While going from office get some flower, gift or eatables. Be relaxed when you look at her. Dont show your office tensions in your face. Make her feel home is the place you are comfortable with. I think these tips are more than enough.
Men (and some women for that matter) tend to "drop the ball". You absolutely need to talk to her and tell her that you are sorry for what ever it was that you did. And I hate to say this, but you probably don’t even know what you done. I am sure she still loves you, but we use the silent treatment, to try and get your attention. Sounds like you really care, so start with an uninterrupted talk. Good Luck!
you have to fix the problems that you have, both to take the blame equally(unless you cheated) tell her your feelings, how much you love her, and do little romantic things for her, things she wouldn’t expect(kinda like when yous were dating) and do the ordinary things without her asking. basically make an effort that shows to her you are serious about your marriage. if she loves you she will see all that you are doing to make things good again.
Well first of all why would she be that angry with you? Is it something you can fix? Something you can change about yourself. If you can’t change what happened, then maybe you need to start from the beginning. What made her fall in love with you in the first place? Look into your past with her and see what has gotten you over a rough patch before, and make the gesture way better than last time. If you love her, and you try hard enough, then it will be better than before. But remember to trust her judgment and give her some space and time to figure out what is best for your relationship and herself.
~You can’t make your wife "fall in love" or love you AGAIN. If you’re still together, she must have some feelings for you.
I think you should communicate your feelings to your wife, letting her know how much you still love her.
Why is she so angry with you? Do you know? If you don’t, ask her and work on that.
Maybe she’s feeling sad and just needs some distance and time to herself, to find out, ask her. We aren’t mind readers.
Good luck~
Ask her to sit down with you somewhere quiet and comfortable…no distractions (maybe some soft music for background noise). Tell her you love her and want to make things work. If up front talks aren’t what you want, try the little things for starters. Do the dishes, clean the house, go for a scenic drive or walk together. Whatever you do, do NOT place blame or make her even feel like you blame her. Make the relationship feel new and loving. Help her carry the groceries in, go shopping with her…anything that you can do to make her life easier will be noticed. Make her feel special.
Relive the times when you two were dating. Recall hard what you did to sweep her off her feet back then. Guess, over the years, what could have been lacking is communication, trust and respect for each other. Listen to her, dont just talk. Show it to her, dont just say. Be patient and you will get there.
Also, you cant clap with one hand. Dont wait for her to extend the other hand to you. Reach for the other hand and guide it with care and gentle ways, so that you two will be able to clap together once again.