How can I deal with this breakup?
July 28th, 2009 by admin | Filed in Getting Over An Ex
Also, my self-esteem has gone down the drain.
I just broke up with my boyfriend and I feel so crummy. There were lots of reasons but one of them being that he always mentioned his ex. The straw that broke the camel’s back was when we were talking about physical beauty and he said I was an "8" (on a scale of 1 to 10). Then, for some reason, his ex’s name came up and he said that he thought she was closer to a 10. He even told his friend that I was an "8". I know this sounds trivial and vain but it truly bugs me. I’m hurting a lot. What can I do to go on with my life and not constantly think about him?
Tags: camel, physical beauty, self esteem
truth be told its going to take time…but what you can do to help it is dont sit idol get involved in as much as you can, hang around positive people, and trust that there are many other fish in the sea and that might be better boyfriends too!
To get over a guy , get under another
your better than him and he can go suck it cuss you deserve better and how your feeling is normal. find someone better
good luck
Think about something else like your heath family hang out with some buds go to church!
keep yourself very busy surround yourself with friends and family act like nothing is botheringng you.don’tnt show weakness of any sort… and u should be fine. i know its harder than it sounds but you can do it
don’t swallow emotions thats not good for you, try to think of a hobbie you enjoy doing, that you can do alot, it will help you keep your mind of the break up for a while, if not try a new sport, or join a gym that you could go to everyday to keep your mind of the break up
He obviously isn’t very smart (in the romance department) and hasn’t had much experience. Just find someone else. That’s all I can say. Why were you attracted to him in the first place? He obviously couldn’t forget about his ex.
It’d help if I could talk to you. aznPatriot627 is my aim if you’d like to talk.
Get all your girlfriends over and throw a big sausage party.!!
no seriously.. stick it out try to have fun and time with heal everything.
f*ckkkkkkkkk himmmmm, he sounds like an asshole, why are guys such assholes?
look, if you need some one to speak to email me, i know how your feeling and would love to help.
now you can’t stop thinking about him so quickly, but you can do stuff that’ll help you get over him..
you can write the negative things down, you can make a poster reminding yourself his an as*hole and not worth your time. you can call up friends to make you happy, or go out with them, write down your feelings, or just listen to happy music that’ll make u dance, do anything that’ll make u move on and forget he existed.
Okay, I’m confused. Help me out here: you broke up with the guy, because he is still carrying a torch for his ex, which means he was never really in the relationship for you. And you feel crummy and constantly think about him?!! Sweetcakes, you should be dancing on the rooftops, and it should IMPROVE your self -esteem – you got rid of someone who was just dead weight dragging you down.
Go on with your life realizing you got rid of a huge gaping, maggot-infested, pus-filled sore, thus freeing you to be with someone who really cares about YOU.
Sweetie, you don’t get self esteem from having a guy.
I can’t believe he said that to you. That was incredibly stupid of him and I doubt it’s true anyway. I would’ve left too. He should be there to lift you up, not put you down. You should’ve been like "Really? Well I never held your penis size against you". LOL. Just kidding. Hope I made you laugh though
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I know you feel un-pretty right now, but don’t let him do that to you. He will be eating his words for awhile, if not now then really soon. But you deserve better. Time fades things and I think your better off without him
Hope I helped,
Anne
Could you answer mine, please?
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do the things you like…talk about it and…try to keep yourself busy
the way i deal with my breakup is tell look at my self in the mirror and say i deserve better. hes is not worth ur time. and the worst u can do is to run but to his , begging him to take u back…
beside why will you want to be with a guy who compare u with his ex…
i’m sure you a beautiful girl and you are a perfect ""10""
good luck
I know this sounds cliche but it’s true…. There will always be somebody else out there that is willing to return the love you give. Quit wasting your time with shallow Hal.
he sounds like a dirtbag who obviously wasn’t over his ex. you deserve better.
Hi, its just me, no need to get up and say hello, sigh. If you want to get over him find 15 ways that you can have fun with out him after that if u still miss him… this is gonna sound weird but… call him, unless he’s got someone in the picture u dont wanna hurt his relation ship. If you call and just say hi it may help alot. kinda like reverse phycoligy or however u spell it .