How can I make my ex to love me again?…?
I have been in relationship with him almost a month… and I have made a big mistake during our date… that is personal thing for me not to say it…
I was very miserable until i can’t think about incidents that we went through with each other… I have cut off my hair very short… just as i was before, a tomboy kinda look to me… lol
The next day i saw my bf, i said hi to him and he look at me with my new hairstyle, he said hi and he walked away… with no reaction…
I was sad, i don’t want our relationship to break off easily… I still can’t forget all the precious time we had together… and rite now, he assuming us just to be friends… I don’t know what to do now… can I still text him? Chat with him? Or should I just do nothing…?
I still love him…
PLZ help me… tell me what to do?…
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I so understand what you’re going through.
You should do a mix between nothing and attempting to get back at him.
What I would do is try to plan ahead on specific days that I’d talk to him.
During the gaps, he will wonder why you aren’t responding (hopefully).
That will be the most painful part because you will find yourself thinking about him sooo much.
Coping is absolutely necessary, because in the end, it might pay off.
Sometimes you will crack up in sorrow in front of him just because you can’t take the waiting. This is normal. Let this occur only rarely, but do let it occur more than zero times because it will be a reminder to him that you still care.
You don’t want to seem DESPERATE.
Thats’ why you want to keep such moments at a minimum – to show that there is a continual love…and that it is persistent over time – rare, yet persistent.
I’m sorry if that didn’t help – I know how painful it can be to wait..especially when the person you love gets with another person during the time you are trying to win them back…
Best wishes to you, I hope you succeed.
i want to know that same answer too except im lost in him
Get one of those magic 8 balls
well if he broke up with you, then he probably doesnt want to get back with you. i know how you feel, i wanted my ex back alot of times.
If you were only together a month, chances are you don’t love him. It takes years to know someone enough to truly love them. Let it go, if you broke up, there was probably a reason. It wasn’t meant to be. You are young and will meet plenty of guys, right now you should be focusing on being young and having fun.
lol, what you did was probably to much. Something he would have never expected. Is it really eally that short? If he truly loved you then he would have never cared, but then agin that was probably an out chracter thing for u to do in his eyes that just left him thinking. He probably want u to look feminime and i think he doesn’t like u anymore. he left without no reaction maby because he does not love u
Right now just give him some space. I know this seems incredibly hard, but leave him alone for at least two to three weeks. No contact and no talking, even texting. That will give you time to clear your head and see clearly. Next, try and establish a friendship with him. Don’t force it, just a casual hi here and there, and then ask him to hang out with a bunch of friends one night.
There is nothing you can do to make him love you again…sorry. If he really wants you back, well then he’ll just come back on his own.
Everything will be okay in the end, if it’s not okay, then it’s not the end.
Ask yourself this: Why would you want to be with someone, love somone who judges you by your haircut?
You don’t. Move on!
theres nothing you can do so pick urself up and move on with your dignity.
your vulnerable right now to becoming a hook up or an easy lay by your desperate will to be with him so cut off contact until your more together emotionally, and if fate allows it your lives will fall back together naturally
coming from a mans persective, you need to just let him go bide your time and let him relize that he misses you. if he doesnt come back then you need to move on and begin the healing process. dont be his friend he hurt you! let him relize that he made a mistake and you need to have him come back to you dont go chasing after him that just makes you look desperate and thats a turn off. maybe try doing some causual dating with other people, dont get to serious and things will work out.
good luck.
it was only a month, not enough time to really be in love to being with. From the way you type your question you seem young and immature. Texting is kind of impersonal with someone you ‘love’, don’t you think? One call, if he doesn’t answer, leave a voicemail, don’t say anthing stupid, just say you’d like to talk to him, goodbye. Nothing after that. If he doesn’t call you back, you have yout answer. If he does, tell him you’d like to see him again. If he texts you back and asks what’s up, forget about him.
You have been relation with him almost a month and now he is avoiding you. This is because he has got what he wanted from you. So he is not a proper guy to be in relationship with. He might have done this with many girls. My opinion is to forget him.
learn what make he love with you.. sound stupid but thats it