Okay, so there’s this guy that I’ve known since..forever, it feels like. It seems like he’s always been a part of my life,and I couldn’t imagine him not being in it. We liked eachother a lot like three years ago,but then we both moved from the city we lived in, and didn’t talk much. When we found eachother on MySpace, though, communication got a lot easier between us. Over the summer, when he came to visit, we hung out for two or three days, and kissed quite a few times. Well, he’s visiting again this summer, and I know we’re going to hook up again. We have that kind of "I’ll always have feelings for you" relationship, and I never had any regrets about hooking up last year. We’ve talked on the phone, texted way past what should be considered healthy, and just in general kept in touch really well. We talk every day, and if that’s not possible, as much as we can. We’ve been talking lately about his upcoming visit in about three months. He was planning a date for us to go on, and said that while he’s down, he’d be my boyfriend. I thought it was so sweet that he said that.(: We were talking, a different time, about us actually hooking up, and what might happen. I said that I definitely didn’t have any regrets about last time, and that I would love for something like that to happen again.
Now, what I’m wondering is how far I should let our relationship go. Of course, I’m not going to be stupid and have sex or do anything risky or extreme, I’m only a teenager. I know that he wouldn’t try to get me to do anything along THOSE lines anyway. I don’t mind going a little farther than last time, but I’m secretly a little scared that we might do something and then him go back to his city and like someone else or something. I know that I’m being silly, though, because if you knew him you’d know that he’s very honest and wouldn’t do that to me. When I was texting him one day, I asked "If we did something, would it just be because you want to hook up with someone, or because it’s me?" to which he said "Really it’s because of you." I totally believe him, but I’m just kind of wanting to get an idea of how far I should let our short-term relationship go.
Please help,and give advice if you can.<3

but,please,don’t say things like "don’t even talk to him, he’s just a creep who wants to get in your pants",or things like that. I know what i’m talking about when I say that’s not him.

Tags: feelings, Hook, Imagine, myspace, Regrets, relationship, Summer 97