My Ex Girlfriend is not letting me have my stuff back?
November 27th, 2009 by admin | Filed in Ex Girlfriend Back
I was dating my now ex girlfriend for six months and although we did not actually live together I did stay over most evenings, we split up about a month ago and although she has given some stuff back other things I lent her or left round there she is not giving back to me, what are my options, its about £1000 of stuff Shirts, DVDs CD’s Lawn mower,CD Player, electric toothbrush, etc etc
Tags: amp, Cd Player, Electric Toothbrush, Evenings, ex girlfriend, Lawn Mower, lent, six months, Stuff
trust me on this dude…Just Let it go, she’s keeping your stuff as a way to keep you in in her life, just let it go, 1000 dollars is a small price to avoid 1 million dollars worth of drama, peace of mind man, …LET IT GO….
Report Her.
lol
Call the police….
tell her give it back or your calling the cops
You could threaten to sue her if she doesn’t give you your stuff back. This will most likely scare her into giving it all to you. Otherwise, you can actually go ahead with the lawsuit.
Get the lawn mower, forget the rest.
maybe approach her.. calmly like an adult an ask politely.. and if she refuses its probably best to let that stuff go then continually keep in contact with her.. good luck.
wait until shes not home and take the stuff yourself. thats what i did.
go over there and demand it back, she has no right to keep it and if she refuses to give it back, go report her.
Lawn mower? That’s kind of serious. Call the police.
tough luck cry about it
It depends on how nasty the split was. Here is some options:
1. send an e-mail politely asking for it back, tell her that if she doesn’t want to have to see you then just let you know when and where and she could just drop off the stuff (send a list)
2. Try a diplomatic approach, use one of your friends or contact one of her friends and ask them to just be the middle man so to speak to exchange stuff you may have of hers and she has of yours.
3. If 1 and 2 fail then I suggest that if you have reciepts/proof that you paid for the mower just go take it tell the local cops first and just write off the rest of the stuff as a lesson learned.
Treat it as a business transaction, the personal stuff is over you just want to tie up the loose ends so you both can move on.
Dont you wonder why she wont give it to you? sounds to me like she wants an excuse to continue talking to you. My sister did the same thing to an ex and it was because she wanted to give him a reason to keep coming around. My advise is to let it go. All those things are replaceable.
Dated casually someone for 5mths and same thing-has my stuff still after officially being over two months-I kinda ended things. We stayed in contact once in a blue over text(with me tryin to stay in touch as friends) and I’d hear apologies and promises that I’d get my stuff sent. Nothing!!! I never was really a priority when we dated, so although I’d like to think it’s a way to hold on to me in some wierd twisted way, I don’t think so. This person is selfish and sennding my stuff back is obviuosly not a priority for this person. At this point, I’m sending an email and if that fails, showin up unexpected to get my stuff and moving the hell on.