What are some ways to get over a painful breakup? i am crying everyday..?
hi. i know a break up isnt the end of the world and time will heal everything. but i was in a 2 year relationship with a guy who hurt me so much- he cheated on me, lied to me about so many things, cursed at me etc.
i know after what i went through you would say just forget him but it isnt that easy. i truly loved him although he hurt me. it’s been a few months since we broke up but he still calls me. i tried everything i can- crying, going out with friends, writing in journals, not talking to my ex, etc but it’s getting worse.
i think the reason is because i tried dating this one new guy and i was interested, i thought he was interested too but he just stopped contacting me. i tried calling and texting but he just ignored me and never responded. so now the pain is doubled because of my breakup and the rejection from this new guy and the impact is so much greater now. i know i deserve a guy who will truly love me, but it’s hard you know? how do i get over this…please help me…
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Take yourself to a therapist and have your codependency (or w/e) evaluated as soon as possible. There’s treatment, you don’t have to live like this.
It’s the bad men who get to reject good women, and women really need to wise up to this mind-game behavior. You can take control of your life and your emotions, you know.
Get outside and take a walk, breathe in the free air and look around you. Life is good–get out there and live it.
Don’t date for awhile–you’re too needy. Until you are happy with yourself, you’ll just attract the abandonment professionals.
you know I am going thru the same thing right now but my girl called it off only two weeks ago. Its really hard bc i can think of nothing else but her. You can email me if you want to vent as I’m a very good listener. Maybe we can help each other get thru it…….
First thing is first. Pull up your socks and tell this guy to STOP phoning you. He treated you like sh*t and you shouldn’t waste anymore time talking to him. The fact is that in bad relationships you are both to blame. Him for treating you badly and you for putting up with it for so long. You need to learn that someone who loves you shouldn’t treat you that way, EVER! and you deserve someone better who will love and respect you. You might have thought at the time that you were truly in love with him but real true love is not one-sided. Secondly, DO NOT date anyone right now. You should never start dating until you are over your last relationship. You need to spend some time alone and find out why you would let someone treat you so badly to begin with. Build up your confidence, get yourself together so you can become the person that you truly are and then find someone who will make you feel good about yourself and build you up instead of down. Good Luck:)