What are the steps to healing your broken heart?
July 30th, 2009 by admin | Filed in Getting Over An Ex
I’ve just broken up with my first love. After too much time, I finally realized he wasn’t treating me right and not returning all of the love I had to offer. So I ended it. And it actually surprised him.
I’m still in love with him, but I’m hurting so badly. I’m not a sappy girl, and all the sudden I’ve turned into a girl who cries all the time. I want to get through this. And I know I’ve learned SO much from the relationship, but I want to stop hurting.
Tags: first love, relationship, sappy girl
Believe it or not, this site helped me… If you want, here’s the link.
http://healmybrokenheart.com/
But remember this, he’s not gonna be the only person you’ll ever love. You’ll love again, but he taught you something. You’ll never love as fast, as hard, as deeply, because then, you didn’t know any better. From now on, you’ll love more cautiously, it’ll probably be harder, not as simple, as natural. But when you love again, forget everything he did to you, and love hard when there is love to be had. Don’t let him be the only love that changes your life.
Only time will stop you from hurting, nothing else. Or you can try ice cream =)
having a huge sleepover with all your friends and just have fun. do fun things to try and get your mind off him. like go places he wouldnt go. forget him. hes not worth it
time is the key…you cant just wake up tomorrow and it will all be gone…try going out and having fun with new people…maybe taking up a new hobby to take your mind off of it. It’s good you learned because it will mak your next even better. But give it time and you will be alright…as someone thats been through it trust me…your going to be fine!
Eat chocolate; it helps everything.
Listen to music; some songs that help you get over him such as tounge tied, song in my head.. etc.
Then just hang out with your best friend
hoped i helped
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i have jsut gone through the same thing i still love him adn my heart is hurting and now he doesnt want to talk to me
iv tried but he doesnt want to
he diidnt pay for my movie ticket and wanted to wait to say i love u and i wanted to say it b4 him i cant stop thinking bout him he is aways on my mind
all we have to do is wait and think
i want to give it another shot but i think i waited to long but u still ahve the chance if u want to give it a shot
best thing to do is forget about him and find someone else who treats you right
Just think of all the bad things he did to u when your was in the relationship, pickup yourself and cry no more and tell yourself you are worth more then to cry enough tear for this guy, and go on and released him from your system.
ccccccccccccoooooooooclate is the best like someone sayed hang wit ur freinds ull 4get about that doush who broke up wit u
As was just said, time is the only cure. The first cut is the deepest, and even though it can hurt like hell, feeling the pain is part of healing. You don’t want to dwell on it too much, though. When you feel like you are ready to let go and you’ve reached some closure, go and do something for yourself – like a pedicure, ice cream, or some quality time with BFFs (whatever makes you feel good). You may have to cry it out more than once, but everyday the pain should go away bit by bit.
well the best thing to do to mend a broken heart i guess what i do whenever i get broken up with or break up with someone i really love is i guess to meet new people talk to a good friend that won’t judge you on anything its good to get your feelings out i learned it actually helps alot when you let them out rather then in and think about why it didnt work out and thats why you aren’t together
First, don’t be so hard on yourself. You can’t honestly love him if he treated you so bad. Second, find out what is missing. Are there things that were left unsaid? Did you need something from him that you never got? Has he ever lied to you and you want to know the truth? Find the answers because that is what could be hurting. Then, get your mind off him. Hang with your friends, read, listen to music that fits your mood, and be healthy! Excercising and making yourself more fit boosts confidence and you won’t be able to help but smile. Just take care of yourself, don’t think about him too much, and get out there! Chances are you’ll be glad that you did.
the same just happened to me and im just rlly listening to what ppl told me to do..ill copy and pastee what this girl told me to do..
if the guy u really liked did that to u then he obviously didnt like u much or was using u to get to ur bff
u just need to realise that he isnt worth it since he doesnt treat girls very nicely
just wait, im sure he will just dump ur friend an move onto some other chick soone enough
try keep ur mind off him
go out an make friends with some new boys
who knows maybe something nice wil develop
hopee i helpeddd.
Start having sex like a whore, it really helps.
After a month of getting laid every night, you won’t even think about him.
only time starts the bleeding…i went through the same thing…only 3.5 months ago…i am still getting over it…but today i went out and revisited a lot of the places that we went to see what i would feel…every time i stopped i laughed…i was remembering the good…but the hurt and pain is still there…just try to push it aside and deal with it a little at a time…if you really miss him too much and want to be with him then go to him and tell him how you feel…but if you know that it would never work then just let time heal the pain
Chocolate and sit down with a pet and your favorite movie, and everything you have of him GET RID OF IT
talk to a friend about it. buy a lot of chocolate chip cookie dough ice cream (at least i get this when i’m upset. . .pick your favorite!) and candy to make you feel better. rent your favorite movie (and i suggest renting charlie bartlet–i’ve never laughed so much in my life).
after you control yourself enough that you can trust you won’t burst into tears, go out with some friends.
AND MOST IMPORTANT THING–you should go to mcdonalds and get french fries. they always make me feel better, whether i’m sick, heartbroken, or recovering from a hangover, i always feel better. and get your favorite soda to go with it.
food helps the soul. (speaking of soul, chicken noodle soup is tasty and makes me feel better. get that!)
good luck!
The only real way to cure a broken heart is with time. Just try not to be in the same place as this person and if you are not comfortable talking with him then try not having to communicate with him if you don’t have to. But you need to get out and do thing that make you happy and think less of him.
Find someone new to take your mind off of him! That usually works.
Good luck!
Just follow these steps.. and eventually day by day it’ll seem easier and easier. Pretty soon you’ll feel so much better.
-Keep him off your mind. Whenever you start to think about him just blast some music or do something you like to do.
-Don’t talk to him at all untill your fully over him! (includes IM,text,e-mail,ect.)
-Throw out anything you have of his.
-Throw out anything that reminds you of him.
Hope I helped!
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What i do is stay in bed all day and eat nothing but chocolate and ice cream! then i walk around eatin chocolate. i never come out of my pjs though or somehing really comfortable. after about a week of that i slump around all day but i am more awake than i was and you can also listen o a lot of music or play on the computer a lot. then you should be good and over it. just realize that he wasn’t right for you at all. after all of that though you will want to go to the gym for awhile!!! lol
Only time will heal because I experienced the same thing and I just wanted to die. But as time went on I just tried to stay busy and eventually was able to move on. It’s no magic formula that is going to stop you from hurting tomorrow but you just have to be strong and move on. He will realize what he gave up and try to come back but it wil probably be too late—-Good Luck!!!!
Nobody will ever forget their first love or last one. Because Love is proved to be remembered forever. (sighing) all you can do is to reduce your pain everytime you are thinking of him is trying walking in early morning, writing in journal about how you feel then hide it in hide place let noone see it, I just start a yahoo 360 a year ago to write erotic/romantic about my feeling foward him it paid off! bake cakes or pies in midnight, clean or fold, or I never had eat ice cream but I had seen a lot ladies eaten them I guess it helps, anyway go out to where is fun but one advice don’t ever think or tell nobody "That store is where my ex bf and I used going , I cant go there It seems to be our romantic marker" No! nothing is his property but his house only. So go to all stores or anywhere! As long you take your time for it to be heal slowly because it is hard to get over but you will get over in abt 1-2 weeks to feel like you are on top! Then go ahead to anywhere! During that time dont act like you are at funeral. You are moving on to a new step