Please help, i would give anything to be with my ex girlfriend again…?
I dated my girlfriend for 14 months. We went through ALOT together. To get started, we began our relationship on January 18th, 2008. In march of that year, i came very close to losing my life in a ski accident. I ended up with 7 broken bones and was out of school for about 3 months. The night that the accident happened, i told her i loved her while half conscious, ha. From that point on we were perfect together. She helped me all the way through my recovery. She ended up breaking her leg that same summer and i helped her with that too. We were completely in love. And yes, you may be thinking that this is the young, lust type of thing that people mistake for love. Im not the guy that said i love you after 2 weeks of dating. It took something serious, and life altering for me to fall head over heals for this girl. We kept getting closer and closer together, even throughout our periods of fighting. But overall, we knew that we could never let eachother go. I talked to my little girl from the first thing in the morning, to the time i fell asleep. My life revolved around her. It was perfect. I had everything i could ever want. Our anniversary, and valentines day of 09 were days i will never forget. In march 09, she ended our relationship. There was no one real reason. I broke down. I couldnt function. I lost everything. And over the next 4 months, i was so screwed up in the head. I always thought about her, i tried talking to her, begging her to come back, confessing my love to her again and again. Until one day her parents put a stop to it. No more contact. I was on anti depressants, started drinking a little, didnt want to have a social life. Our group of friends was pretty close. There were guys and girls and we did everything together. After the breakup, everyone didnt seem to hang out together anymore, it all ended. I finally got back under control of myself about 2 months ago. I didnt break down as much but i still loved her more than anything in the world. Even seeing her talk to other guys as a friend made me sad. Im around her everyday in school now. The no-contact period is pretty much over. She’ll talk to me now and then, smile, say hi, and so on. We’re on good terms but i want to be more than friends more than anything. I want someone to care about. Someone to give my all for again. I want to make her the happiest girl on earth. I NEED a way to convince her mind that im ok now. Now may i remind you that i havent talked about our relationship with her in about 2 months, so its been quiet lately. Please help. Ive been to therapists, talked with my parents, and just about everyone else. Its impossible to let go when you would die for this person. I want to show her that i can do this. She means the world to me.
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Wow! First i would like to start of saying,i’ve been through all this before as well. It was honestly the hardest period of time in my life. I am a girl though,so it was slightly different. I really feel your pain and i understand how difficult it is for you. I was the SAME way. I constantly broke down, and at times i didn’t want to continue living. It was the worst time for me. I want to help you, because i know what it’s like losing the one you love the most. It’s tragic. Yes,i am also young. Believe me,i was told over and over again that it wasn’t really love. Therefore i will not tell you that it isn’t because i know from reading your entry that this is truly love,and i can relate to it myself. I am going to give it my all to help you. You deserve to be happy again, and you’ve been through a lot as i can tell. I don’t know if what im about to say will help,but i am willing to give it a shot.
Like i said before, i am a girl. I am gonna tell you what it would take for me to take back the guy i once loved.
I think that randomly one day, you show up at her house and ask if she had a moment. Talk to her, go on a long walk. Tell her exactly how you feel. Don’t leave any detail out. She will respect that.
Another thing you can try would be to write her a letter. Get out a sheet of paper and right down all your feelings. In that letter mention how she made you a better person. Tell her that without her your absolutely nothing, and would do ANYTHING in the world to be able to call her yours again.
Tell her this: All i want is a second chance. I understand it’s not that easy. Saying that i am willing to do anything and everything to have you back.
Tell her: The times i loved the most were just simply talking to you. Now we barely talk and it’s honestly driving insane. You were the reason i would wake up every morning. You put that smile on my face.
But before you say any of that to her, think about it. Don’t just tell her what i just said word for word. Put it in your own words/thoughts. And only say it if you truly,truly mean it.
You mentioned that you loved this girl that you lost.
Tell her: I love you. Those three words have my LIFE in them. I gave them to you.
I really extremely hope that some of this helped you. If it didn’t then i apologize. I hope things work out soon. If not now, eventually. I can tell you really love this girl.
I wish you the best!(:
Let me know if all goes well, thanks!
Wishing you the best,
Mikayla(:
Okay, I don’t really have an answer for you. But I think this is like, the saddest story ever! You sound like your really really sweet!
Hey man, i just want to say how sorry i am that this happened to you. Im currently going through the exact same thing with my ex. That girl meant the world to me but the more i tried to win her back the worse things got. Looking back i guess i overdid it and probably looked pathetic to her and annoyed her alot because she tells me she hates me and that the 14 months we were together meant nothing to her. my best friend was involved in the whole thing aswell so i lost 2 of the people i cared about most in the world. But despite all of this I want nothing more than to have her back and I\’m willing to forgive her of everything she put me to if she would just come back to me and stop the path of self destruction shes chosen. Sorry, i guess i just answered your story with a slightly more depressing version of it but the truth is i really dont have any because after having been apart for almost 3 months my heart still aches for her especially after knowing how many other guys shes been with. so i guess if some1 could give me some awesome advice on how i can fix this mess bearing in mind that she cant stand me id greatly appreciate it..
Hi my name is Harold and I dated my girl for almost two years now and something happen we broke up like 3 weeks ago and it hit my heart like an atom bomb I don’t know what did I do wrong all i did just to be good boyfriend to her I respected her so much she meant the world to me so much she was my happines I´ll do anything just for her I wash her car early in the morning or whenever time she wants I cooked for her I pick her up in the school or work when her car is broke down and I gave her alot of things no matter how expensive it was I just don’t care about the money I care about her I just want to make her happy and everytime I come inside in my room I see her face everywhere in my wall and I´m talking to her picture I fell like I´m crazy and now I can’t talk to her I can’t send her a message I can’t see her I don’t know what to do without her I feel so lost I cannot focus everything what I´m doing all I want in the world is just to have her back in arms she is everything to me all I did everynight is just pray to god that one day she will call me that how sorry she was I hope that day would come,and I really need helð for this if you will I really approciated it…thank you so very much