What can i do to let my wife know that i love her more than she’ll ever know?

My wife is beautiful first and foremost. And right now were going through a pretty rough patch. We have 3 kids (11months, 2 years, and 7 years), Im currently in trucking school and unfortunately cant find a job that will hire me for just weekends and i wish i could do so much more for her. I know once i get on the road in 2 to 2 1/2 weeks the money will start rolling in again but right now i cry when shes not around because i want to give her the world but its not mine to give her. She has my heart though :) She has that kind of smile that makes your day better and makes all the rotten things seem worth it. Shes a real trooper to put up with this situation and i would like to know some cheap to free things i can do with her or for her to show her how much she means to me. I could go on and on and on and on about how much i love my wife and how much im in love with my wife but im sure you get the picture lol

  1. Maria, 04 December, 2009

    Help around the house and with the kids! She must be exhausted, if she’s taking care of the kids, and is she working for an income also? Clean the house, go grocery shopping, prepare meals, clean up the kitchen, get up with the babies at night, get them dressed in the morning, give them baths and read to them at night, help the older one with homework. Ask her what she’d like done. If she has the time and energy to do more than smile at you (I’m sure you get my meaning), you’ll know she knows you love her.

  2. loyalty, 04 December, 2009

    get a tattoo of her name over your heart…that what mines did..i loved it

  3. Are you Kidding ME?, 04 December, 2009

    Actions speak louder than words..watch the kids and let her do something or YOU clean the house..things like that

  4. Nikki, 04 December, 2009

    Write her a poem from the heart.

  5. monie, 04 December, 2009

    Cook some nights when you are home. Clean the house and pick up after the kids. That makes me really love my husband more when he is helpful around the house.

  6. janie <3, 04 December, 2009

    well, depending on where you live you could either take her on a picnic, or sightseeing in a nearby city, ice skating or even just out to dinner and a movie, something romantic and from the heart. just get a sitter and go out just the two of you and spend some time together. and tell her all of the things you wrote in your question if nothing else.
    i know i would love to hear all that, especially in tough times. women like to hear that they’re appreciated and loved. i think it would make her really happy to hear that you think the world of her and would give her the world if it was yours to give. you sound like a good guy, i hope it works out for you :)

  7. randy, 04 December, 2009

    Where do you live? Is it warm enough outside?

    Maybe you could light some candles and make a picnic for her outside while looking at the stars at night. If not this could be done inside still, give her a massage and just tell her how much you love her/how much she means to you.

    If inside, light the candles around the bath tub and take a bath together.

  8. sisters28, 04 December, 2009

    go on a second honeymoon
    or propose again and THEN go on a second honeymoon.

  9. Ohmyheaven, 04 December, 2009

    A two carrot emerald cut diamond ring, after the money starts rolling in.

  10. JKL, 04 December, 2009

    express how much she means to you as much as you can. Women can never hear it enough! do something special for her, give her a massage, make dinner, give the kids a bath just let her rest a bit.

  11. E, 04 December, 2009

    Write her a love letter about how you feel …I love when my husband writes me a letter.. those are words she can go read anytime she is feeling down or when you have a spat or if she is just missing you while you are on the road…I go and read my husbands letters when i really miss him while he is in ait in the army …

  12. Annie, 04 December, 2009

    Many families are going through a rough time right now. You doing what you can and she is just being a good wife. Just leave her little notes around once in awhile. Massage her feet, take care of the kids while she takes breaks. I also have know quite a few truckers, if you love her, remember that when strange women come onto you at truck stops. Seriously, its a tough life for a family.

  13. Michael J., 04 December, 2009

    Hi from UK!
    Why don’t you buy her a CB radio then you can keep in touch when you’re on the road. I’m sure she will love that and how much so when you call her. "Come in good buddy, I’m on my way home."

  14. luvlisteningtomusic, 04 December, 2009

    First of all treat looking for a job like a job. Go out and fill applications out 8 hours a day treat it like a job. There is so much you can do for free. You can write her a beautiful poem. You can tell her from the heart how much you love her and tell her how frustrated you are about looking for a job. Go on a picnic either at a park or have a carpet picnic in your home with some romantic music. You can make her favorite meal with candle light dinner. You can go to the park and feed the ducks. You can go for a long walk holding hands. Women like mushy stuff. You can pick her a flower even if it is in your garden. You can help clean the house or run errands for her. You sound like a good husband and she sounds lucky to have someone that loves her so much.

  15. Candy, 04 December, 2009

    wow, you filled my eyes with tears.

    Your wife is a lucky woman.

    I think love notes which are genuine and tell your wife why you think she is irresistible or the best woman on Earth are the best gift a woman can receive. Better still attempt some poems.

    It has more power than flowers, jewellery, expensive holidays or gifts when they aren’t accompanied by any respect love or understanding of the other person.

  16. julesann, 04 December, 2009

    You can start by telling everything you just told us. Especially tell her how her smile makes you feel. Woman love that.

    Free or low costs things to do to show your love,

    Picnic on a blanket in your living room after all the kids are asleep.
    Fix and serve her breakfast in bed.
    Run a bubble bath, light some candles, share the tub and a glass of wine or juice.

    There are so many simple ways to show your love. She knows it just by the way you are going to school to get a better job and take care of your family. So don’t forget to be good to yourself. As soon as you are able, plan for family or friends to watch the kids and take a romantic week-end for yourselves. If money is tight, camp out in your back yard. Make love under the stars. Let the simple life with simple things be your guide to happiness and contentment.

  17. Bonnie, 04 December, 2009

    Just spending time together and working together as partners for a common goal means a lot to a wife. With 3 children as young as you have, helping with them, spending family time when you can makes all the difference. Looking her right in the eyes and telling her you love her in the morning and before you go to sleep. Tell her how much you respect and appreciate her.
    Doing things that need to be done before being asked – shows your love.
    Believe it or not its the simple free things that mean the most!
    Take care & good luck

  18. John, 04 December, 2009

    1. Sketch your dream-house floor plan and talk about each room.
    2. Take a bath or shower together.
    3. Write the love story of how you met. Get it printed and bound.
    4. List your spouse’s best qualities in alphabetical order.
    5. Tour a museum or an art gallery.
    6. Park in a secluded area and kiss in your car.
    7. Make your own movie scene—stop and kiss on a bridge as the sun is setting.
    8. Place emphasis on the little changes she makes concerning her appearance.
    9. Give your wife a bath and wash her hair.
    10. Float on a raft together.
    11. Take a stroll around the block.
    12. Take your wife away from the kitchen while she’s cooking, and “sauté” her with kisses.
    13. Bring home foods she loves to eat but won’t buy for herself. (Don’t do this if she’s dieting!)
    14. Give each other a back rub.
    15. Rent a classic love-story and watch it while cuddling under blankets.
    16. Give your spouse a body massage.
    17. Walk through model homes and dream about your next house. Steal a kiss in a closet.
    18. Stroll around a nearby lake.
    19. Sit in front of the fireplace and talk.
    20. Read to one another in bed.
    21. Take a horse-drawn carriage ride.
    22. Turn the lights down during dinner.
    23. Make a surprise call to your spouse while you’re out of town (in addition to your scheduled calls).
    24. Play music in your bedroom.
    25. Go swimming in the middle of the night.
    26. Shave your wife’s legs.
    27. Shave your husband’s face.
    28. Write a poem for your spouse.
    29. Run through the sprinklers on a hot day.
    30. Look into your spouse’s eyes while she tells you about her day.
    31. Make up nicknames for each other.
    32. Go the extra mile to please your mate.
    33. When you’re the one who’s correct during a discussion, give your spouse a kiss. Focus on your love rather than who’s right.
    34. Tell your spouse, “I’m glad I married you!”
    35. Fulfill one of your spouse’s fantasies.
    36. Hug your husband from behind and give him a kiss on the back of the neck.
    37. Stop in the middle of your day and talk to your spouse for 15 minutes.
    38. Create your own special holiday.
    39. Place your hand on your spouse’s leg when you’re riding in the car.
    40. Send your wife a compliment through one of her friends or colleagues.
    41. Ask for an isolated booth in a restaurant.
    42. Become your spouse’s cheerleader when she’s had a terrible day.
    43. Tell your wife, “I love you because…” (Finish the sentence.)
    44. Show your wife affection while she’s talking to one of her friends.
    45. Sleep in a sleeping bag together.
    46. Do something your spouse loves to do, even though it doesn’t interest you.
    47. Go horseback riding on the same horse.
    48. Photocopy a newspaper cartoon and write your own romantic caption.
    49. Write out romantic notes leaving them where your spouse will find them.
    50. Cut out romantic photos from magazines and write your own messages on them.
    51. While driving, pull over for scenic sights and get out of the car to enjoy God’s creation.
    52. Write your spouse affirming love letters.
    53. Mail your spouse love letters instead of leaving them in the house.
    54. Feed ducks together (you can feed any type of animal as long as it’s not a house pet—the idea is to get outside together).
    55. Build a snowman together.
    56. Watch the sun come up or go down.
    57. Go fishing together with only one pole.
    58. Sit on the same side of a restaurant booth.
    59. Spontaneously spend the entire day together away from the house.
    60. Picnic by a pond.
    61. Give your mate a foot massage.
    62. Put on perfume or after-shave before going out.
    63. Go Skinny-dipping.
    64. Develop a code word for sex that you can use when you’re in a crowd.
    65. Buy your husband or wife a new outfit.
    66. Sing a song to your spouse.
    67. Let go of helium balloons and watch them race each other out of sight.
    68. Buy her a stuffed animal.
    69. Write “I love you” in the dust around the house instead of complaining about it.
    70. Set up a manicure, hairstyling, or mud bath appointment for your spouse.
    71. Put together a puzzle on a rainy night.
    72. Read a romance novel together.
    73. Rent a boat.
    74. Take a train ride.
    75. Ride bikes in the rain.

  19. dainajc, 04 December, 2009

    while trips and honeymoons are romantic, you need to learn the love languages to be performed while you are home. They go a long way farther after the vacation is over. There are 5 of them

    1. Words of affirmation — compliments and verbal appreciation. Some women to be complimented means everything in the world.

    2. Quality Time – to others nothing is more special then being together…actually TOGETHER not sitting in the same room doing two different activities.

    3. Receiving gifts – others like presents, presents and more presents. they get delighted when they get to open a box and see something they like rather its sparkly and glittery or something more useful.

    4. Acts of Service – help out around the house, always be there when she needs a helping hand. find out which chores are more important to her (if you wash all the cars and sit there proud of yourself while she thinks the dishes or laundry have a higher priority you just shot yourself in the foot)

    5. Physical touch – that ones self explainitory :)

    good luck

  20. JP, 04 December, 2009

    My husband and I are in a similar situation with the lack of money thing – here are the best things that were free or close to it
    – Stargazing – drive to a quite artificial light free place with a ton of blankets with the kids- they will be amazed at that sky, and just quietly hold hands with your wife – or if you have a friend or relative that is willing to watch the kids for a few hours in the late evening after they go to bed, that would work too.
    – Back massage – or full body for that matter – be gentle, maybe she wont want more than just a light rub, and keep the sex out of it unless she initiates it – you have no idea how wonderful it is to know that your husband appreciates your body even when the sex isn’t in the picture, not to mention how relaxing in a stressful time a simple back rub can be.
    – Impromptu dancing – at night when you are doing dishes or cleaning up or some such thing – put some music on and steal her away from the chores for a few – just to twirl her around or hold her close – it will even make the kids laugh, and you can include them if they are around after a few minutes of just you two time, and a smile and special look so she knows it was for her.
    -picnic – ok, if you are in a warm enough place that there isn’t snow on the ground, secretly pack up a picnic and surprise the whole family with some fun – and invite some family friends, and conspire with the dads to have you boys watch the kids so she can have some girl time.
    -date – find anywhere – if she will go for it, even a milkshake at McDonald’s with the kids, but tell her that you are insisting it is full blown prom type dress up, or as far upscale as her closet goes (check first), no matter how she fusses about it at first- girls love the excuse to dress to the tees and show off their man. – just make sure that you are the one to handle messes from the kids, not her.
    -service – open the doors for her when she gets into or out of a car, get up early and conspire with the kids to bring her breakfast in bed, offer her your hand with a wink when she goes to get up out of a chair – but be careful not to object if she returns a favor, just lay on the appreciation.
    – other activities we have done – roller skating if you can find an old rink somewhere, hiking, ice skating, snow-man building, thrift store shopping for the most ridiculous outfit under 10 dollars competition, making a special dinner, card games, board games, community concerts, and a visit to a friend of hers she hasn’t seen in forever.

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