How to heal a broken heart while being around people who are in love?
I have recently been trying to get over a breakup. I have been very sensitive emotionally. My emotions become intensified when I am around my older sister. She has a relationship now with a guy who she is in love with. She thinks this may be the One for her. The issue is that she shares details with me about the relationship that are too personal–She shows me love notes he writes to her, she calls him while I’m sitting with her, and she goes on and on about how they cuddle and the songs he sings to her, etc. etc. I know people will say, it’s natural to feel jealous sometimes in my position, but is it okay to tell her to not be so open about it? The last time we met, I ended up in tears–I couldn’t hold them back. She said that I just have to deal with it, she’s not going to stop talking about her happiness. She said she felt I was "dissing" her for asking her to be more sensitive about my emotions. She had a previous bad relationship–now that this one is good she’s going to talk about it freely. I feel better when I’m not around her, but she says that she can only talk to me because she feels there is no one else in the family to talk to. She says everyone else is too judgemental. She’s been with him over a year and hasn’t introduced him to anyone yet. She doesn’t have other friends she can talk to. I can’t live on another planet to avoid her. I just want to know what is the best way to heal when dealing with her.
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Meditate, take Yoga classes and take a deep breath, it truly helps.
with time and with new love
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Screw all of the you dont need a man to make you happy. Im sure that you are a nice person and you dont have to suffer over someone who does not care for you
Unfortunately, for you, life goes on and others will be happy whether you are or not. I think it is very selfish of you to not be happy along with your sister. It is not often in life we get to be happy. Just because you are unhappy now is no reason for her to depress her feelings for your inability to get over someone who probably cheated on and/or treated you like crap. Be happy for her and learn to recognize this is YOUR opportunity to relish in her happiness and some new guy will see you are not some bitter, can’t let go of the past crazy girl. Learn to appreciate that this is your time to reflect what you need from a real man by seeing it in your sister relationship. The more you are exposed to happiness the less miserable and more desirable to new men you will be. Misery know it loves company, gee-sh!