where did I go wrong in my relationship and how stupid can I be for letting a girl bust my heart open like?
this? I dated my ex girlfriend for more than 2 years and did the best I could in our relationship. It was long distance but yet I found a way every other month to drive 8 hours and see her. I worked real hard to prepare a place for us and it seemed like it was all for nothing. For more than a year she told me she was looking forward to being with me and sharing a life with me there were too many things that went wrong. She lied to me, cheated on me with several guys more than 5 that I found out about. When I found out about two of the guys she lied to me for more than 6 months about it and in the last month we were together told me that she did in fact know the guys and one was a quickie that meant nothing to her. This is suppose to be someone that loves me and promised to share my life with me I got a fabulous place for us and this was brought to me a week after I saw her and she told me I was angry and we said I would get over her it wasnt more than 3 days somebody else was there and I found out she had been seeing him about a month anyway that didnt work out and I said I wouldnt ever bother her again. Its been 7 months since our break up I do not want her back or think we even deserve to be friends. I have not talked to her and now she is fishing for info from a friend of both of ours about me. I do not want her back nor do I even want to hear her voice or be her friend. I just want to know in our relationship where did I go wrong and do you think im wrong to feel like this. Even today when I hear or think of her it hurts. Where did I go wrong and how could this hurt like this
Tags: 7 months, ex girlfriend, fishing, long distance, many things, quickie, relationship
Sorry dude, but i guess you picked a wrong gal to fall in love with. If she cheated on you, isn’t that like breaking the loving imagine you have of her? She’s not the one or the right one for you if she did all that. I think you fell in love with the love you had for her and the person you were when you were with her but not her. You are empty now because that part of you, the man you were, is not there any longer. You know this, thus why you go around where you did go wrong. Yo got caught up with this image that you missed out on the reality. You shouldn’t give up. There are a lot of ladies out there and no need to walk in the darkness. There’s light. Remember though, love ain’t easy for anyone so however you put it, you are never the only one with heart ache. Emptiness has to exist in order to be filled. So feeling empty is not that bad, it means you have a goal, a purpose to accomplish!
It sucks. I know. And there is nothing anyone on here is going to say that will make you feel better. The only thing you can do is "sack up" and realize she is a b*tch and you are better off without her.
There is an episode of South Park where Wendy breaks up with Stan and he joins the goths. But when he snaps out of it he deals with it like you should. He sees Wendy and her new boyfriend Token walk by and "Hey Wendy. You’re a bitch. Token (gives middle finger)right there buddy"
you didnt do anything wrong she messing up herself. next thing you know she pregnant but dont know who the baby daddy is. i would have killed her with a knife. ( dont do that though just a thought).
you didnt do anything wrong. You seemed to go out of your way to visit her as anyone would when your in love. I really dont know what to say cept if she didnt want to be with you she should have told you not cheat with other guys. And if she loved you she wouldnt even think about hookin up with other guys. She seems to be fishing for info to see if you have moved on. Im a 23 year old female, and it seems like most of my boyfriends cheated on me, and i was left feeling it was all my fault when i really didnt do anything except love them and did everything for them. i never thought id find the right man. But 6 years ago i met my soul mate, and we have two beautiful boys. This just shows their is someone perfect out there for everyone. i know it hurts, but just remember dont live in the past and wonder why and what if… look to the future and youll find the perfect chicki for you.
GOODLUCK and KEEP SMILING
u seem 2 be so sweet..a perfect guy a gurl culd wish 4….everything happends 4 gud..she doesen’t deserve u at ALL….nt even u frendship….better stay away frm her……i am sure she is gonna regret and pay 4 this i hope so 2 …………probably someone LOT more better is made 4 u………. and u didn’t go wrong anywhere it was she who was wrong…..truely speaking..u r the type of a guy a gurl culd ever wish 4