How do i make my boyfriend love me again? PLEASE HELP!?
August 2nd, 2009 by admin | Filed in Ex Boyfriend Back
Last week my boyfriend and i had a terrible fight,the worst fight we have had, and ever since our relationship has not been the same, he loves me, but he is not in love with me anymore, he says it’s different and he doesn’t think it can work. and it’s tearing me apart, he is the only one i want to be with, and i have to make him fall in love with me again. PLEASE HELP ME!!
Tags: love, relationship
Look girl i am 17 years old and i have had lots of experience but this is what i have to say to you. "Let him go, if he is yours and you both are ment to be, he will come back, If he was never yours and you both arent ment to be, then he will never come back!" Didnt panic he is not the only guy in this world and you wont die without him, im sure youre probably better off without him. If you keep on pressuring him it might just make the situation worse too you know. IF does not even want to talk to you then say alrite and give your self a break im sure if he loves you and he misses you he will relaize he loves you and that he needs you. Think positive. I have been trough alot and i have had long relationships also but you know what theres alot of guys in this world and let me tell you this, is not worth to cry over some guy, is not! your life is not over! Is NOT! keep on going, dont let your self fall just because of some guy. I understand your sad and all but you know wat always works for us girls??? Go cut your hair, do your nails, dye your hair, get a perm, or just go shopping, change your style, try to impress him if you love him that much and like i said if he loves you he will come back. Dont go back to him though bagging for love because i can guarrantee you that if you two get back togeather he will take advantage of it and nothing will work out. chill girl. take a break.
It depends why you broke up! Just tell him that you are fine & that you accept the break up for now. If it was your fault, briefly apologise. Tell him that you want to be friends. Remember stay calm & do not panic. Good Luck.
If a relationship fails the first time, you are either not ready to be in a relationship or you two were not meant for each other. I am NOT religious, but consider whether you are in LOVE with him or in LUST with him? Do you like him, or the idea of a man?
“Love is patient; love is kind
and envies no one.
Love is never boastful, nor conceited, nor rude;
never selfish, not quick to take offense.
There is nothing love cannot face;
there is no limit to its faith,
its hope, and endurance.
In a word, there are three things
that last forever: faith, hope, and love;
but the greatest of them all is love.”
Take that to heart and really analyze the words, how they are placed, the meaning, and intention of each word there. Do you like him so much, that you are able to bypass his dislike or disrespect for you? THere ARE other men out there, somewhere, that will truely love you(like the previous quote) and respect you the way you deserve to be repsected. Women Have NO IDEA the extent of a man’s imagination. I care for my gf…I really truely do. I want to marry her..But women do not understand the survival instinct of men and have no idea the extent we will go to in order to procreate. The fact that you said he says "he loves me, but not IN love with me anymore" basically says you need to pick yourself up, and get back out of the field to find someone who will respect and TRUELY love you..In the words of the quote above….TRUELY love you. I really mean it though. Either you two are not ready to be in a serious relationship and you break up ovr something STUPID, or you were truely not meant for each other. There was a lot of information there, but it is ALL as important as anything else I said.