Surviving divorce…any strategies?
August 2nd, 2009 by admin | Filed in Save My Marriage
I’m a 23 year old male filing for divorce. We were only married for 11 months…any suggestions on how to swing back into the single life?
Tags: filing for divorce, single life
Sorry that you had to go through this, but just try and keep yourself as busy as you can. Get to know yourself better. Learn to explore your hobbies and do things that you wish to. Keep a journal of thoughts and feelings and be your own counselor. Whenever you catch yourself thinking about your past, just remember dwelling on your past only wastes your opportunity to have a better future and steals away from your presence. So enjoy yourself and be around frens and family, or make new frens!
Get out there and swim. Sitting on the shore looking around or feeling sorry for yourself will not help anything. I got divorced a few years ago had no problem at all getting back in. With the divorce rate as high as it is now anyway, chances are about half the people you talk to have been divorced and have walked in the same shoes you are about to put on. Use it as a stepping stone. OH by the way CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Get on your knees and pray to the gods that you were only married 11 months then go out there and eat what you kill.
Yeah. Make sure that you give yourself time to heal from the divorce. Try to look at it objectively and see what happened so that you can learn from the mistakes.
lots of beer n strippers!
Start going out with you friends to bars etc, try internet dating. Take advantage of the fact that you are your own boss again.