steps for mending a broken heart….?
my boyfriend and I were together for 10 months and broke up 3 months ago due to the "inconceavable differences (?)". the pain for me comes in waves and i still sometimes find myself thinking about him and reminiscing. we were supposed to go to hawaii for christmas but the trip was cancelled and refunded because we broke up. what makes it hard right now is that i just found out that he is in hawaii with his friends. its not helping to know that he is there and i am here. plus, i am slowly moving on with my life and i thought that i was all better until i heard this news. i guess what i am asking for is guidance on how to cope with the situation and how to find peace in my heart. in retrospect, i would really like to be back to my "normal" self soon. any thoughts?
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it just takes time
Time
find a new boyfriend
Drink alcohol heavily.
do something new on your own or with friends it worked for me!!!!!
Time, be as active as you can, hang out with friends and family. Start a new hobby. You just need things to keep your mind off it. And of course you will probably meet someone new, if you try new things… Thats really the easiest thing to do.. Good luck.
Only time "heals a broken heart". One other thing that works, is a New Boyfriend, someone to keep your mind occupied. Good Luck and go out and have a great New Years’ Eve!
Love hurts… People come and go… Try getting a hobbie, or something to take up your time. Out of sight out of mind…. Keep all things that remind you of him put away. Try to find new places to go that you two didnt go… after a while you will find yourself feeling better, and coping with it. You want to stay strong!! Take the break up as a life lesson… Learn what you did wrong or right, and what they did wrong or right. Dont put yourself in this situation again… Love hurts more and more each time.