Comments on: Can you fall in love with your spouse again? http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/1909/can-you-fall-in-love-with-your-spouse-again/ Your trusted and independent reviews of the most effective "Getting Your Ex Back" guides online Sat, 28 Jan 2012 13:41:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Elliott N http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/1909/can-you-fall-in-love-with-your-spouse-again/comment-page-1/#comment-10537 Elliott N Thu, 17 Dec 2009 14:26:32 +0000 http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/1909/can-you-fall-in-love-with-your-spouse-again/#comment-10537 Yes. It happened to me. After 8 years of being married, I felt I was not in love with my wife any more. I fell in love with a coworker. Even though it never became sexual, I was in an emotional affair with this single woman. After about 2 years of this, I was cleaning out our garage and found some old love letters that my wife had kept. I read all of them. I began to see my wife in a different light and realized that she was the person I had first fallen in love with. I fell in love with her all over again and in June we will celebrate our 23rd anniversary. I know now that I will never fall out of love with her again. It can happen, but it may take more than wishing it to happen. Go back and see what attracted you to each other in the beginning and start looking at the person you love. Believe me everything from our friendship to our lovemaking has been much better since I found those letters and realized what a wonderful woman I had married. Yes. It happened to me. After 8 years of being married, I felt I was not in love with my wife any more. I fell in love with a coworker. Even though it never became sexual, I was in an emotional affair with this single woman. After about 2 years of this, I was cleaning out our garage and found some old love letters that my wife had kept. I read all of them. I began to see my wife in a different light and realized that she was the person I had first fallen in love with. I fell in love with her all over again and in June we will celebrate our 23rd anniversary. I know now that I will never fall out of love with her again. It can happen, but it may take more than wishing it to happen. Go back and see what attracted you to each other in the beginning and start looking at the person you love. Believe me everything from our friendship to our lovemaking has been much better since I found those letters and realized what a wonderful woman I had married.

]]> By: tessa701 http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/1909/can-you-fall-in-love-with-your-spouse-again/comment-page-1/#comment-10538 tessa701 Thu, 17 Dec 2009 14:26:32 +0000 http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/1909/can-you-fall-in-love-with-your-spouse-again/#comment-10538 I think yes sure you can as long as there is still that love there.My hubby and I did come apart from each other during my last pregnancy we never said that we were going to get a divorce to each other but we were more like the only reason why we are still together is because of our kids.What helped us is my actually being fully honest with each other about everything that we were feeling and working on them.Alot of the time we say we will work on it but we don't but this time around we did and now we are happily in love with each other.And it feels so good knowing that we didn't just throw in the towel and remain the way that we were. I think yes sure you can as long as there is still that love there.My hubby and I did come apart from each other during my last pregnancy we never said that we were going to get a divorce to each other but we were more like the only reason why we are still together is because of our kids.What helped us is my actually being fully honest with each other about everything that we were feeling and working on them.Alot of the time we say we will work on it but we don’t but this time around we did and now we are happily in love with each other.And it feels so good knowing that we didn’t just throw in the towel and remain the way that we were.

]]> By: daljack http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/1909/can-you-fall-in-love-with-your-spouse-again/comment-page-1/#comment-10539 daljack Thu, 17 Dec 2009 14:26:32 +0000 http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/1909/can-you-fall-in-love-with-your-spouse-again/#comment-10539 You're never going to constantly feel those "first-love" feelings 24/7. If you did you'd never get anything done. Those feelings come back when you have your date nights, or when you happen to look up and he's looking at you, or when you're on vacation together, or when you get to shower together...or the quiet afternoon when you child is taking a nap.....etc etc. etc. It's the little things that keep the romance going....not the once a year biggies. You’re never going to constantly feel those "first-love" feelings 24/7.

If you did you’d never get anything done.

Those feelings come back when you have your date nights, or when you happen to look up and he’s looking at you, or when you’re on vacation together, or when you get to shower together…or the quiet afternoon when you child is taking a nap…..etc etc. etc.

It’s the little things that keep the romance going….not the once a year biggies.

]]> By: polka dot. http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/1909/can-you-fall-in-love-with-your-spouse-again/comment-page-1/#comment-10540 polka dot. Thu, 17 Dec 2009 14:26:32 +0000 http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/1909/can-you-fall-in-love-with-your-spouse-again/#comment-10540 First of all, I'm sorry that you are hurting and I give you credit for trying to rekindle your love with your spouse. I am engaged at the time and my fiance and I are very much in love. We do things for one another, we have open lines of communication, and we make sure that we have alone time together. When I say that we do things for one another, I mean little things, like compliments on looks, like "hunny, you look really nice today" or "i like your butt in those jeans", haha. One thing that my fiance and I have is respect, we respect each other. I suggest that you and your husband sit down and talk about what made you fall in love with each other in the first place. You may find that you both have fallen in your love phase because of the new child and getting older and experiencing life. I would say that you need to start by have 20 minutes of alone time per day. You can spend that alone time just laying down, or just looking into each other's eyes, or you can just talk. Start slow, that is key and communication is also key. Good Luck and hope you can rekindle your love for your husband because love is such an amazing thing. First of all, I’m sorry that you are hurting and I give you credit for trying to rekindle your love with your spouse. I am engaged at the time and my fiance and I are very much in love. We do things for one another, we have open lines of communication, and we make sure that we have alone time together. When I say that we do things for one another, I mean little things, like compliments on looks, like "hunny, you look really nice today" or "i like your butt in those jeans", haha. One thing that my fiance and I have is respect, we respect each other. I suggest that you and your husband sit down and talk about what made you fall in love with each other in the first place. You may find that you both have fallen in your love phase because of the new child and getting older and experiencing life. I would say that you need to start by have 20 minutes of alone time per day. You can spend that alone time just laying down, or just looking into each other’s eyes, or you can just talk. Start slow, that is key and communication is also key. Good Luck and hope you can rekindle your love for your husband because love is such an amazing thing.

]]> By: lawolifer http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/1909/can-you-fall-in-love-with-your-spouse-again/comment-page-1/#comment-10541 lawolifer Thu, 17 Dec 2009 14:26:32 +0000 http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/1909/can-you-fall-in-love-with-your-spouse-again/#comment-10541 Being the woman, YOU have all the power here. Us men are pretty simple things. Give us kindness and respect and we'll move mountains for our families. You need to be the person that you would want to come home to . Set up something for when he comes home tonight, like candles and a bath or oils and a backrub and look foreward to it all day yourself. It's not like he'll be all goo-goo over the actual event but just the fact that you've planned and looked foreward to it will send his heart through the roof. Flirt with him constantly- like you did when you first started your relationship. Act like his "girlfriend" again. Any reasonable man will eat this stuff up and make sure that you're the happiest woman on earth. Have fun with it! Take care! Being the woman, YOU have all the power here. Us men are pretty simple things. Give us kindness and respect and we’ll move mountains for our families. You need to be the person that you would want to come home to . Set up something for when he comes home tonight, like candles and a bath or oils and a backrub and look foreward to it all day yourself. It’s not like he’ll be all goo-goo over the actual event but just the fact that you’ve planned and looked foreward to it will send his heart through the roof.

Flirt with him constantly- like you did when you first started your relationship.

Act like his "girlfriend" again.

Any reasonable man will eat this stuff up and make sure that you’re the happiest woman on earth.

Have fun with it!

Take care!

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