After the breakup (serious relationships), do you feel like its actual physical pain in your chest?
January 18th, 2010 by admin | Filed in Getting Over An Ex
I recently had a breakup, as you might expect I am totally devastated by it. And I really feel the pain of it, I mean not actual physical pain but very strong feeling inside my chest. And I keep missing her every single second although its been almost 3 months now.
Is it just me being fanatic… or its something people usually experience !!
PS. just for the record I ain’t a teenager any more and am not acting childish. And I read somewhere that ‘anyone’ can get over ‘anyone’ in a maximum of 90 days.
Tags: Physical Pain, relationships, single second, strong feeling, teenager
Yes, that’s happened to me before. It feels like a huge tightening in your chest. It makes you cry, doesn’t it? It’s like an overflow of feelings. It happens when you feel strongly about something.
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nope maybe you have to poop
I did. Once or maybe twice, i felt some pain in my chest and I dropped to my knees once from the pain when I was crying. It even took my breath away. But once I learned how to control my emotions it didn’t hurt anymore. Well I could stop it.
Sometimes, but only when I’m really upset.
Yea it is pretty normal but for me I am usually over it in abou 40-60 days but I really havent been in a really serious relationship yet so all in all yea it is pretty normal
I’ve never experienced a breakup, but at the same time I’ve never had a girlfriend. I get the same feeling in my chest, especially at my lowest points or times that I become very upset about it.
At times the feeling goes throughout my entire body. I’m not sure what this feeling is, but you are not imagining it. I have felt it too and I have heard stories of others.
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I have had chest pains over a relationship, not the pains that take you to the ER, but it hurts.
No, you don’t get over someone in 90 days. You get over them when you get over them. However, this is one case where time can heal all wounds, as long as you press forward and aid healing with a healthy lifestyle. Let it be about you for a while, just don’t hurt anyone in the process.
You could have had a panic attack. But remember any chest pain be very careful-you could think it something else and it be a heart attack. Don’t say you are too young, I knew a 15 year old who had one. Go see your doctor, they can help you.
Loosing someone by breakup, especially if it was sudden or unexpected, can give a person the same feeling of grief as loosing someone from death. Basically you are still grieving for that person who is missing from your life. You are probably very stressed out, maybe even going through a period of depression. It is painful, but you will get through it. If I lived through it, than anyone can live through it. And that 90 day crap is bullshit. Take as long as you need.
NOt EVERi ONE CAN GEt OVA SOME ONE iN A MAX Of 90 DAyS . tHAtS NOt tRUE ! If It WAS A SERiOUS RElAtiON SHiP . && . yOO lOVED hER ! ItS PERfECTlY NORMAll .
i feel bad for you man i am a teenager and i understand what you mean, i lost a girl i loved more then i thought anyone could ever love anyone and she just came to my house and came in and told me its over and it was completely random but it was cause her parents but enough about me. Whenever i think about her i actually do get like maybe a cringe in my chest and it takes awhile to get over it i suggest you just go After other women it will at-least take your mind of her and you know what it worked for me, maybe for you too. good luck… love sucks. all thou i currently have a girl friend i love i fear the same thing will happen again
Well i don’t know about the 90 days. Heartbreak doesn’t have a time limit. Some people can get over heartbreak faster than others. Everyone will be different, and you might still feel the loss of that person, but i just remind myself of all the reasons why the relationship didn’t last.
It’s a time for you to learn and grow and then finally when you are over that person and have found someone new and special, than you know what NOT to do in a relationship.
You will always think of that person from time to time, that’s what makes you human. It’s not always a good thing to just forget them completely, because you might not learn from your mistakes.
It’s happened to me… it’s happened to me a lot (recently) and it sucks :/ And for me it’s almost been three months too. (although I am a teenager and probably childish)
i used to get that pain to(cause my ex was a jerk and made me sad a lot, so different reason, but same pain i think)
personally i think it was kinda like a mini panic attack from all the emotional strain.
I almost would hurt so much it would make it hard to breathe.
But in time your remember less and less about your ex, and start to get over her. Try not to only remember the good if you want to get over her, try and think of her annoying habits too, lol sounds odd, but i found it helps:)
hope you feel better soon:)
mhmmm. I get that feeling when im really sad.
i can very well relate the feelings…it pains alot when u miss her/when u think abt the past…u wil feel like “i shud be with her now”…but then nothing can be done…u hve 2 move on..take those wonderfull life that you spent with her n jus move on…i dont know but its really diffcult…am undergoing the same pain now..
Although I know that my current boyfriend is not my match and we are currently going through a breakup, my chest hurts permanently. Its a physical pain that feels like my left side is pulling me down. It’s a horrible feeling but I know from experience (previous breakups) that this pain will go away with time. Time is definately the essence! And will heal all wounds. I’m sure of it, dont give up, I know I wont.
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