Guys: Have you ever had any luck getting a strictly physical relationship with a girl?
January 22nd, 2010 by admin | Filed in Getting Over An Ex
there is this girl in my class, she’s 19 i’m 21, i’ve asked out many, many girls in the past, and they’ve all said no, so I was thinking maybe girls don’t want to date me, but they might let me have sex with them just once? Do you think this is a good idea? This girl seems like a party type girl, so maybe she will be into that idea…have you ever had any luck with this? I’d much rather have a relationship with her…but i think the chances of that happening are slim…
Tags: girls, Party Girl, physical relationship, relationship, type girl
Yes, but it’s not what you think. It’s not like some porno film. The woman has to be shown respect and care. She knows you’re not in love with her, but that potential is in the air. It’s a certain magic you have to work, but helps if your heart is into it. No woman I’ve ever met wanted to be treated like a hooker, even if her goal was ultimately sex.
No
We are not just physical beings. I don’t think it’s healthy, or smart, even if you could, to have a sex only "relationship"
Even if you can do something, doesn’t mean you should
Luck
Not a good idea, and few girls think that way anyway. It’s a guy thing, and you can’t expect girls to be "wired" the same way.
If you want a relationship with her, work on it the traditional way – pay attention to her, be interested, be considerate. If she’s not interested in a relationship, it’s almost certain she won’t be interested in sex either.
you would have better luck getting in a strictly physical relationship with an older woman who’s in her sexual prime and her husband doesn’t care anymore or she may just be a horny single older woman who likes to get it from younger guys. this kind of thing goes on all the time; more than people realize. younger girls care too much, a lot of times, to just get in a physical relationship.
As a girl, I’d say this if you "have asked out many, many girls in the past, and they’ve all said no", the chances of just sleeping with them are pretty slim. One night stand with someone you don’t know is a possibility, but no way will a girl that rejected a relationship (aspecially at that young age) be willing to have sex with you.
Just my humble opinion.
good luck
No, you have a bad approach. You can’t just go up to a girl and ask if they want to date you. You have to take things slow. Patience’s is a the key but if they said no in the beginning then move on to another. Party girls like to have fun and not serious at all. I have done it with all types of girls. Party girls like funny guys and outgoing. Easy to get along with types and most (not all of them) likes to social climb. Good luck
Yeah, but I wouldn’t call it "luck."
I would rather have something more contemporary, but maybe we humans are prone to always wanting the opposite of what we have.