WILL MY EX GIRLFRIEND GET BACK WITH ME?
I just got done talking to my ex girlfriend over the telephone. She basically told me to leave her alone because otherwise she will call my parents. she told me that i am a good guy, she cares and loves me…but doesn’t love me like that, also she went on saying that she ll never back and be married to me and have childern with me. We were together for a year, and towards the end she kept wanting to break up because she said that she didn’t see herself married to me etc… I told her than to stay with me until she found another guy ( in a sarcastic way). well, in september she went out dancing with her moms’ brother in law, and started develop a crush on him. He’s always had a crush on her, ever since his brother married my ex girlfriend mother. But, she’s was never interested in him. Until they finally went out salsa dancing. So she said that she was interested in him and was confused. We ended up going out one more time in mid september, and it was lovely, we were happy….but when i woke up the following morning, i was upset by the situation, so i told her in so many words " either me or him" she said " let me think about it" i replied " then nothing" so she said, " ok take care".
She also said that I can’t force her to love me…… and that she’s been ignoring me because she doesn’t want me to love her.
At this point, what should i Do? I really love her, i miss her everyday, but she’s basically told me that she’s not interested.
I mean, after a year together, a girl could just fall out of love like that? was she ever in love with me?
A month after we broke up, she asked me to help her with some money to fix her car……she told me that i was the first guy that she ever asked for money…i asked her why? she told me because she trusts me…….
Why couldn’t she ask the new boyfriend then???? I always told her that i was going to be there for her in any sitaution, so that’s why i went ahead and help her with the money.
SHe wrote me a post dated check, but i refused.
Anyway…… I really love this girl, but is it really over? HOw could a gilr refuse someone who ‘s giving her so much love?
SHe’s 26, and i am 28. She’s been through a lot in her life, tough childhood, bad father, bad relationships, 2 marriages, an abortion……
We got together right after a tough break up for her…..she had just broken up with her ex of 5 years whom she was deeply in love with…..but I was the one helping her through that.
But she’s a great great person deep inside…that’s maybe why i lover her so much.
What should i DO?
Tags: brother, cares, ex girlfriend, love, money, new boyfriend, parents
I’m sorry. But it sounds like its over.
But you sound like a man with a lot of love to offer and I’m sure you’ll be able to find someone else to love.
Ugh, stop giving her money, stop calling her, and start living your life without her because the truth is, she doesn’t have romantic feelings for you.
She may love you, but she also probably loves her mother. And her dog. And her new shoes…. there are varying degrees of love.
Also, I’m tired of hearing about how people had a bad childhood. EVERYONE has a shitty childhood. That’s what growing up is all about.
I know it’s tough to deal with and you feel like you’re dying inside, I am going through the exact same thing right now but you can’t stay hung up on someone who’s spelling it out for you.
You should move on. Seriously.