1 – I never ask for payment for any help I give. I did not become a Witch to make money off of other people or their needs.

#2 – Of course I want to know what is behind the asking. If they intend to harm someone else, manipulate another, or do something for a completely selfish need; the magick will only backfire and come back to hurt them. I wouldn’t give a child a loaded gun and say, "now you be careful with that while you play with it", the asker is the child, a spell could be the very gun that hurts another.

#3 – If I give someone a spell, I try to teach them its how, when, why, where, what and who; they need to understand everything it is about, the consequences, and they need to understand their own need for it.

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ALL ABOUT SPELLS

The spell is at the heart of folk magick. it is simply a ritual in which various tools are purposefully used, the goal is fully stated (in words, pictures or within the mind) & energy is moved to bring about the needed result.

Spells can be as simple as reciting a short chant over a fresh rose while placing it between 2 pink candles in order to draw love; forming & retaining an image of the needed result in the mind; or placing a quartz crystal in a sunny window for protection purposes.

To perform effective magick – 3 necessities must be present: The Need, the Emotion & the Knowledge.

It has been said that magick was the first religion, & that if you lovingly utilize the forces of nature to cause beneficial change, you also become one of them.

It is these powers that have been personified as Goddesses & Gods. Attuning with them is a spiritual experience & is the basic of all true religion.

i was with my ex for 3 years and i thought we would never break up. but we did and i found someone who is way better to me that he ever was. and my ex actually thanked me for breaking up with him so he had the chance to find his new girlfriend. There is someone for everyone out there that you will get on with like a house on fire.

If you love your ex so much and he loves u why did you break up in the first place and secondly have a look at

http://www.spellsandmagic.com
The elements encyclopedia of 5000 spells (i know it can be viewed via e-book)

Those are the best ones i found during my studies