anyone going through the pain of a recent breakup?
I brokeup with my boyfriend of six months last Sunday. It was a mutual, and amicable breakup but was done very hastily and impulsively on my part because I was hurting so much. I knew eventually we would breakup because we had too many issues and ultimately realized we weren’t meant for each other (We had planned to get engaged over the holidays). I never wanted to cut things off between us completely, though. I keep having thoughts of calling him just to get some closure, but I’ve been advised by friends and family not to do that. I’ve been hurting so much all week and I keep seeing and thinking about things that remind me of him. Any advice on how to heal my heart?
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Time, baby, time. Fill your days, be around friends and family. Control your thoughts, don’t dwell on things, that only creates negative thought loops.
As you know, sometimes your brain has to rescue your heart kicking and screaming from bad love. The right thing to do is often the hard thing to do, this experience will make you a stronger wiser person.
If you still care, cold turkey is the only way.
I don’t believe anything told to you will help. It takes time to heal. But just know that there is someone out there that was meant for you and hold you hopes on that.
I have been there. I tell you what.. Do call him, I know you need it, but not now, be patient, till you ar more used to the pain, then call him… I am sure he will welcome it, he will be extra nice, but don’t be tricked by it.. Keep in your mind that it is over.
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its been 2.5 months and nothing has faded as yet..people say that time is the biggest healer…I am waiting for that time( I still sometimes feel that I am going toward depression) when I will be able to forget…but being busy.. being with your friends, writing down your feelings(peronal diary, blog or in my case I write all my feelings for him in and e-mail to him which I don’t sent and save as drafts) ,especially planning for your future helps..better not to be alone…also reading about others who are undergoing the same situation helps and makes you feel that you are not alone to have undergone this..
Time is the best medicine. Give it a month or so to let your heart heal a little, then if you still want him in your life try to make a friendship work. Always remember that you broke up for a reason, usually relationships just get worse the more time you spend trying to fix everything that is broken.
wat i would say is, try and get yourself a getaway car.. leave the places tat u n ur bf had been before, leave the memories behind for some time.. Until u can get over wit ur feeling and ur broken heart.. a breakup isn’t easy for a person to maintain normal, bring some of your girlsfriends or same sex people along.. those who r close friends.. Go for a vacation, for a few days, relax and do something new, that u hadn’t done in your life before.. take ur mind off things a while, try not to cope urself wit the painful stuff, release it.. fill the empty space in ur heart wit new experiance tat u can seek wit ur friends, friends also can be treated as a healing power.. love can be a complicated thing, as people always say, it take 1 day to love, but it takes more than 1 year to forget.. so, dun be too upset, u can treat this as part of life.. n life’s never tat perfect.. always remember to look at the bright side before remembering the dark side… so try and make ur life much more cheerful.. and walk right out of the gloom.. and not let it haunt u forever.. life will only keep going on.. it’s always time for future, but never time for the past…