She is …« she is my love » but she change very quickly, and i don’t know how to solve this situation?
I’m a man who respect the others especially women
I fall in love with a lady, she has 20 years old and she study in the university in my city
she was sending to me a lot of warm love poems by e-mail, and time by time i use to tell her i love you and when i talk to her also when we meet each other.
She like that, and she feel delight!! She told me how she felt
we know each other from 245 days, I send her some e-mail, to tell her how much i think about her and that I love her and i want to married her. I mean that in future after she complete the studies
She was happy to hear like that, but today she is change – she answer me in mail and she said : « I think that in your mind I’m so perfect girl – it’s not me, you fall in love with perfectl imagination of me »
I know that you are so great person and wonderful man
but I realised that I treat you like great friend, and I’m not in love with you
then I choked, and after a while I think that she is only want to make sure if i really love her or not, I ask her to forgive me and that I’m her friend and i treat her more than friend
she said : « Don’t be angry with me, but I think that you think too much about me, I really not deserve for this, and I would rather be happy to hear that you met another girl, so great, nice and beautiful- not waste your time for me »
I told her that I should not wrote that letter, just think that it’s not exist, I want to be your friend and more for ever
she said : « thank you, you are my real treasure »
I know that I let you down, and now you will a bit sad because of me
I told her that i know what you think about and how you feel
And i don’t want some one to take you from me,
She said : « don’t worry, it’s difficoult for me to fall in love with somebody- i don’ know why »
I don’t know how I will could wait for long time when she will complete the study and then maybe i will have the right to talk about married ?
She send me e-mail last week, but I don’t know what to tell her about this mistake that I did
I only talk about married
Hello dear « xy »
Your mail give me real pleasure and relief.
First of course the song – I love this song!!
And I’m so happy that you are not angry with me, and I don’t feel like I has disappointed you, because you understand all my feelings and intentions.
You are so amazing person – I can tell you everything I feel, and don’t afraid of your reaction.
Thank you!!
Take care !!
I have 25 years old, we have sign of lion, both of us ![]()
and sorry for my English it’s my 3rd language,
Tags: e mail, imagination, long time, love poems, perfect girl, wonderful man



From what I read I saw that she thinks she isn’t good enough for you. Make her feel good enough. Don’t talk about marriage right now but always tell her what a wonderful person she is and give examples of things that she does that make her good enough. Maybe if she feels worthy of you, marriage won’t scare her off. Always tell her how pretty she is and make sure every compliment you give her is true don’t just try to flatter her with lies. If she knows that you think she is a great person, loving you won’t intimidate her. Also try wooing her. Don’t make it obvious though. She says it is hard for her to love so make her fall in love with you without realizing that she is. I hope everything works out and I wish you the best.