Is it possible to fall in love again and make it last?
My boyfriend of a year, on January 9, told me the other night that he does not feel the same about me anymore. He says he still cares about me but is confused as to how much he loves me. He also said that he feels like his love for me is fading. I told him I have been feeling the same. He has been spending a lot of time on other things(his band, school, work, helping his friends out) and spending less time with me. But when we do we normally fight about not being able to see each other a lot. And i feel like i need to see him more. Besides him always being busy he is the best boyfriend and an amazing person.We have a great relationship. We trust each other, communicate well, and have never been unfaithful. We both do not want to break up but, he is confused as to what to do since he has never been in this situation- I feel the same. Is there a way that we can become closer again? If so… will it last or will the same situation come up later on down the road?
thanks
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ignore him cut him off for a while if he still feels the same way move on
I think you both need to re-evaluate the relationship and see how it goes. Even if you have to seperate for awhile its worth it to know how you both really feel about eachother.
Relationships don’t last without effort on both of your parts. If you want this to work out, you have to make time for each other. Remember to communicate (but not by fighting – that doesn’t get you anywhere); be open and respectful for your partner’s feelings. If you really wanted your relationship to last, you would both put forth the effort. Otherwise, it’s one sided or doomed for failure, and since you don’t want that, make an effort. Go on a date, go out, be cuddly and cute and sappy like you were when you first started dating … rekindle those feelings.