what is the best way to heal a broken heart?
What is the best way to get over someone, a love, that you have for someone? You cant someone love you or care for you if they dont. This seems to all date back to around april 25th, I am 19 and believe in karma, i dated this one guy for around 3 years and we had our ups and downs but in the end i was the wrong one in the end, since i maybe took things too far and cheated after i found out he did, i was much younger then and had learned my lesson, but i guess that saying is true that everything comes full circle and i found myself in a relationship with a 23 year old guy, cute and great dancer, he has cancer and so has some emtoional insecure issues, but i looked past all of that, and when i first met him he had a great personality. Things started to go from great to bad, when fights happened more and more and then they started to get physicla he never "hit me" but he would push me and shove me, hold me aganist the wall and hold my head straight so i would look at him, id be crying and i think after he snapped out of it and realized what he was actually doing, he would try to kiss me and tell me he loves me and is sorry and that i should know how he gets and shouldnt bring him to my level, so then i began seeing it as though it was my job to not piss him off, but all throughout the time, i am losing myself, forgetting the values and morals that i was instilled with as a child, self respect, the true meaning of love, and knowing who you are. so we fly by three months, the same thing happens make ups break ups and even talks about having a baby. Yet in the end he broke up with me, saying that the fighting was getting to be too much and i was immature and blah blah blah! so he promises me that there is no other girl, and that he is single and is going to stay that way, yet i later find out that he is now with some girl, and she is older than me and he said hes with her because she is soooo mature and has her own apt. and he spends the night there all the time. and that im annoying, yet i was the one who was there for him through all his down moments, took his abuse, bought him a tv, well in advance since he now owes me the money and is telling me that i need to not call him and wait for him to text me to see when i can go get hte money. basically he is treating me like how i treated my x, i dont need anyone to say its karma because maybe it is and maybe it isnt, i just need ANSWERs and maybe some advice.
Thanks
Ive asked family and friends, but WhAT DO YOu have to say?
THANKS!
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Tequila
HAVE A GOOD SOLID CRY………….
Get a triple bi-pass.
forget about it and go to a club have fun and meet some people
duct tape
Ok first of all, although he did not actually hit you, he was very abusive. Pushing, shoving, and restraint is abuse and you should NOT tolerate that! This man is scum and you should not waste your time being sad over him. Enjoy being single, focus on yourself, get into a good book, spend quality time with family and girlfriends, take cooking classes or dance classes or anything that makes you feel good. Just don’t waste your energy on this guy. There are TONS of guys out there that are way better than him… trust me.
you shouldnt be feeling sad about this break up…no one deserves to be in an abusive relationship…as stupid as it may sound, maybe your hearts not broken, maybe its just finally free! Go out have fun and find a guy who truly deserves you and doesnt treat you poorly! best of luck
my advice is to realize you need to get over it. and no its not karma. doesnt sound like he was so great to you anyway so why would you even want him.. i been there before, where im with someone and am not too happy but when its over and you see him move on and see him happy it pisses you off………..well you need to do the same.. keep yourself entertained.. meet some new guys…trust me it made it easy for me cuz i kept busy just even conversatin with diff guys throughout the day.. and also hang out more wit ya girlfriends go out and keep busy..
get iinterested in someone else,
It sounds like you went through a lot of heart break. I know how you feel. Some guys can be real jerks and then they pay the consequences by losing the person they loved if they go too far by cheating on them and abusing them. I’m sure as time goes by, you will find a man who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. When you do, you will be so much happier than you were with the guys who did not respect you.
Just remember, its normal for these things to happen and you’re not alone in this situation. If any guy treats you in a way you don’t like, stand up for yourself and say, "I’ve had enough of the way you’re treating me. Get out of my life or I’m leaving you for good." If he abuses you, call the police and have him arrested right away. Don’t wait until it gets REALLY bad. Never let anyone beat you down like that. Don’t worry, life goes on and you have your family, friends, and God to support you. I hope my advice helped you. Stay strong and lots of luck to you.
Honestly, I believed in karma too.
Anyway, only time can heal the wounds. It’s very hard in the beginning but things will be better sooner or later.
Don’t looked back or try to get back together again, big mistake. Let him go, he is not worth it. You will find someone who is better than them put together. Things will be ok. Just be strong and put the past behind you.
Cheer up!
Don’t call him leave him alone only time can heal a broken heart and yeah you are basically feeling what your x felt but don’t worry the same way he manage to get over you you will get over this one and learn from this don’t go hurting people because someone will come and hurt you