Rebound relationships?
About a month ago, my Ex and I broke up to see what else was out there. I’m still pretty hurt from it, especially since she told me shes "hanging out" with another guy, who she says is just someone fun and completely different than her normal type. She says she still misses me and that she hasn’t moved on, only that hes a nice guy. If you ask me it sounds like the classic rebound guy… completely different from me and is helping her fill my void.
I called her last week and told her its too hard for me to be her friend, when I still have a tremendous amount of feelings for her. She said if thats what I needed to do then alright, but that she really does want me in her life because im still her best friend. I told her too bad, it was obvious she had moved on in only a matter or a week or two.
Im just curious why rebound relationships involve someone completely different than the last partner. I have my college degree, a good solid job and am only 23 years old. Now shes interested in a 26 year old police man who is covered in tattoos and almost bald. Ladies help me out?
The relationship was for 2+ years. We had a great relationship until the stress of her life caused some fights, but nothing major. The last month was full of highs and lows
Tags: 23 years, bald ladies, best friend, college degree, feelings, great relationship, hasn, highs and lows, job, Misses, nice guy, police man, Rebound Guy, rebound relationships, stress, tattoos
Sometimes when you look for something new yu want to separate yourself from the past (i.e. the total different kind of guy).
However… rebound relationships aren’t necessarily a good thing. Especially if you guys were in volved for awhile. It could crash & burn since she took no time off in between. I speak from experience.
How many times are you going to post the same question? It’s only been a month. It’s time to move on and find yourself another woman who can love you for you. Stop worrying about what your ex is doing. It makes you look stalkerish and scary.
i don’t know why a guy take bs like that and believe it. a month broke up is nothing but she was already move on with someone else. she needs you as a friend that’s bs. it’s more like a spare tire … dump her for good man. you’re still very young. why embrace problem while you’re single. there’s plenty to giveyou headache once you’re married. save your energy.
She has made her decision and now it is time to move on. No one can explain why she is doing what she is. It sounds like she has moved on but wants to keep you around in case it doesn’t work out. Good luck.
Dude, just move on. She’s clearly not for you at this point.
how long were you together for?
He is a rebound guy
How was the relationship Was is good? any issues? Towards the end did you see issues?
I will check back for your answers .. Thanks
This may sound like a cop out
BUT,
only God knows for sure from what you have told us. It could go either way.