Will I ever get my ex back?
Ok we dated for two months & a month of it was long distance because he goes to college like an hour away & we completely trusted eachother! We never fought, ever! The other month of our relationship he was home for Christmas break and let’s just say he took my v card but he wasn’t a virgin..and on new years eve he wanted to go to a party where he went to college & asked me to go but i said no i wanted to stay home with my family & friends..so he comes back the next day and says we need to talk and says he seen his ex at the party and it brought back feelings and it wasnt fair to me and i was completely broken. They broke up because they fought nonstop and never really were happy I guess you could say but they were eachothers first so he says he loves her. A month after he breaks up with me there dating and its been like a week into it now and they are already fighting and i was talking to him tonight and he told me why they were fighting basically because he doesnt trust her and its long distance for them too and he told me that he knows he screwed me over but he loves her with his whole heart and no matter how much shit she puts him through he will always be stuck with her even if he does deserve better..and he told me i know you wouldnt do something like that but im with her and its not going to change..will he ever realize that he does deserve better and that he can actually trust me and want to be with me again???
They dated over 2 years ago and she just got out of a 2 year relationship is she just using him for a rebound??
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I think the first thing you need to do is figure out why you want him back. You need to really understand this before you do anything else. A couple of articles that might help are at:
http://bring-back-the-love.com/articles/get-your-man-back/5-steps-on-how-to-get-boyfriend-back
http://bring-back-the-love.com/articles/get-your-man-back/3-tips-to-consider-before-you-get-your-man-back
Once you figure that out, you’re going to be in a lot better position to decide what you want to do next. If you do decide to go for it, read the rest of the "get your guy back" articles at that site and come up with a plan!
Good luck to you whatever you decide to do!
–Pat
So basically this guy can do what he wants, dump you and get you to go crawling back? Move on, it would be very desperate looking of you if you went back.
opinion: no, he just used you, see:you only lasts for less than 2 months
you were in a rebound love affair
it’s better move on
First and foremost you need to relax and take it easy. Then prepare a strategy to resolve this delicate "mess"
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