how do you get over relationship anxiety?
been with my bf for 3and a half years. great reltionship. broke up for a few months – he did the breakin up. we got back together. after 4 months of being back, i started experiencing anxiety when i was around him. i love him so much and i’ve been trying to push through these feelings b.c i know i don’t want to not be with him. sometimes i’m fine and wonder why i worry. other times i get physically ill…most of the time it is anticipatory anxiety….anxiety about anxiety. will i get it today? will i feel anxious when i see him? we are moving in together, and i am freaking out that i’ll be in a constant state of anxiety once i move in. i know i wnat to do i though b.c i want to ove our relationship on to the next step. i want to conquer my fear…how can i move past this anxiety and cherish and value what i have and stop worrying about- what if’s? help.
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Tags: 4 months, anticipatory anxiety, bf, fear, feelings, half years, love, relationship, worry
I wonder if your anxiety is actually anxiety of losing him, rather than having him? It’s normal that when you have something you love, losing it is worse than anything else. So perhaps on some level you don’t trust him to not break up with you again. I think that, if this is the case, you should learn to be self sufficient. Learn to love yourself first, and be able to function without anyone in your life. Then you two can grow together, rather than you being with him, living in fear that one day he will break up with you again.
Hope this helps
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He burned you once and you think as I do, that being, if he burned you once, he’ll burn you again. The only question in your mind is "when?"
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