Am i wrong to ask my ex to give back an expensive gift i gave her?
I gave my (now ex) girlfriend a pretty expensive necklace for Valentines day (a little over 0) and she broke up with me today. Should i ask for it back, or would that be a rude?
Tags: ex girlfriend, Expensive Gift



I still can’t believe you spent 200 on that. You need to ask for it back. Its the right thing to do. I know it sucks, but she was a betch to you, and you deserve way better then that. I love you Ty :]
It was a gift, leave it be.
no its not rude you gave it to her because she was your gf but now that your broken up you should take it back specially if its 200 bucks couples ask for their stuff back all the time
thats so cruel she did that. make up an excuse why you want it back. like tell her you cant afford to continue payments to see if she will give it back. if not your out of 200 bucks
I don’t think that would be rude, but that’s my opinion. I’d say take it back.
Yeahh, I think you should ask for it back. She broke up with you- She obviously doesn’t want/need it anymore. So I don’t see the trouble in asking for it back. It’s clearly not as meaningful to her since you just gave it to her yesterday lol. I’m 18 too, I know how it goes.
she must have known she was going to break up with you( unless she was expecting a $400 necklace) so it was a pretty mean and mercenary thing to do, so ask and not even politely
Yeahh, i don’t think its rude.
Any relationship i’ve ever been in, i’ve always given the stuff back.
And she broke up with you the day after Valentine’s day? Sorry!
Yeah, definitely ask her to give it back to you. There’s no need to be vicious or aggressive though. Just be reasonable and cool-headed. Good luck!
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Hmmm..
yup u gave it to her… wen ur were in love.. to her…
gifts are not taken back….. unless the other dont want to keep it..
move on…… it might be expensive but @ da time she was more precious than anything
dont forget that..
sitll ur wish…
ask for it!
uhhm yeah yu kinda shuld azk 4 it bak,
Wtf obviouzly she dint give a sh%t about dumping yu 2 dayz after Valentinez Day so F%K HER!!!
To tell u the truth she probably just wanted sumthing from u n then wanted to break up with u soo talk to her and tell her if she still ahs sum thing for u that way u will now wat to do also lesson to ur heart PS good luck i think u should just take it back because thats fucked up lol
I am always of the opinion that, if you give some one a present it should be theres for ever becasue if you don’t its just like they are borrowing it. However, I would also say follow your gut instinct- the fact that you are asking this question shows that you want to ask for it back and that you are a good enough person to consult other before making your decsion. The only thing is it is probably you trying to get something back from them after them split with you. Good luck nayway
While reading your post I was little surprised that whether it is “love” or something else that you guys had in between ! If it is love, I am sure you won’t think like this at the very next day after break up. Aren’t you feeling shame to think like this? It is a gift that you presented her out of love! Ri8? And now that love has got over as far as you are concerned, I feel. But if you ask the gift back, I feel you are closing the reunion possibility yaar. In my opinion let the gift be with her, as a memory of your love! To tell her that you have loved her at some point in your life. Anyway do as your mind says. Thank you.