How do i heal my Broken Heart?
I have a broken heart, and i need help to get over it from intellegent people, persons whos heart have been broken too. You see i grew up without a father’s love and not may persons in my family showed me love. So finding love and acceptance was one of my goals, i looked for it in many different places and got really hurt, right now i dont think i know what it is to really love somene i only know infactuation, and i am having a problem getting over the last messed up relationship i was in. I really want to improve my present state so it does not affect my future. i want to met a christian guy who will be patient and caring. Can you help me recover and heal prefectly "muffinspooh@yahoo.com
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Best way to mend a broken heart is with a new love..
spend most of ur tyme with ur fwens n never talk about ur ex.
believe me,it works
the best thing to do is find a professional that is willing to listen to you and talk to you about the way your life reflects who you are, i promise that it works and will help you move a long and achieve the goals you want in life.
I also have been hurt deeply in the past. Two things I have done to help myself is forgive the past and take time for myself now.
Forgiving yourself and others in the past is important for you to move on. Look at your past as lessons learned. All that has happened has made you a better person today. Also, stopping to take time for yourself……like finding things you like to do on your own. Like movies, books, hobbies. Taking long baths. Go get your nails and toenails done. Take care of your self. Over time you will feel a lot better and will be more healthy to begin something new.
i think, you should make yourself busy…..
you can watch tv, watch DVD, play Playstation, play computer, vacation to another place…. etc…
or, the best way is, seek a new love……
Over the years, I have had a broken heart too many times to count.
I am currently nursing a broken heart from a failed 5 year relationship. I had to accept that if it was meant to be, it would still be. I get lonely, but I keep my mind occupied and try not to dwell on the negatives in my life. I try really hard to stay optimistic.
I know in my heart that I am a good person deserving of love from from a good man. I believe that when GOD is ready, HE will give me the man of my dreams. Until then, I work on bettering myself as a person and trying to heal from all the past b/s that has scarred me.
Don’t dwell on the past – you can never change that. Focus on your future and on healing.
Work on you, and when GOD is ready, HE will send you that christian man your heart desires.
I understand what you are going through but…maybe you shouldn’t search for love or acceptance,let it find you. I believe that there’s someone for everyone…we just have to be patient. To get your mind off of your broken heart, try yoga. Become one with yourself before you give your heart to that special guy. Good Luck
Well, usually when you cared deeply for someone and they hurt you, it’s going to take some time to feel better. You may always feel a little hurt in your heart because of that person.
I know what helped me feel better was to talk and go out with friends; watch funny, positive movies (there are a lot about breakups!); concentrate on school and refocus your attention on something challenging; volunteer and help others who are feeling and going through much worse situations than yourself; exercise. In other words, try to distract yourself!
Of course, meeting and talking to people of the opposite sex will make you realize that there are others out there. Just when you’re going through a broken heart, I wouldn’t recommend getting involved again too soon. Find some time for yourself first and build your self esteem. Otherwise you’ll end up in the same cycle of infatuation again.
How to Heal a Broken Heart…
You’ve all heard the expression "a broken heart." But in fact, getting over a "broken heart" may be harder than it seems.
Steps
1. Try to understand why you are upset. What exact moment did you feel upset?
2. Don’t think about whose fault it was- at one time or another, everyone makes mistakes. Don’t worry about it.
3. Do something quiet and relaxing to help you feel better. Maybe you want to take a hot bath, or meditate, or read a book. That’s fine.
4. In an hour, or two, or whenever you’re ready, start thinking about whether you are ready to accept the other person’s feelings.
5. If you are, go ahead, call them, write them a note, or whatever you need to do. Maybe you want to talk face-to-face. They may not be willing to see you, or talk to you, but you should make an effort. Even if they turn you down, you feel better that you tried, and maybe they’ll recognize that you made an effort.
6. Move on. When you feel you are ready to open your heart again, find someone else to be with.
Tips
* This could potentially take a long time- don’t feel bad about it.
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*Much Love* **God Bless**