How can I get my ex-girlfriend back?
March 16th, 2010 by admin | Filed in Ex Girlfriend Back
I am 15, 2-3 months ago my Ex Girlfriend broke up with me, she said we were arguing over to many stupid things and that she dosent feel the same anymore, I tried getting her back like 6 times but she kept saying she dosent feel the same way anymore. After 3 months we have started being friends again but I am still madly in love with her and dont know how I can get her back. Anyone know what I should do?
Tags: being friends, ex girlfriend, love, stupid things
Hey
Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.
Here are great steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together
You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore someone’s texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Don’t Be Jealous
Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Being Flexible Is Very Important
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn’t take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really serious about getting your ex girlfriend back soon as possible I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back.
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all the best
i would just focus on other girls..
your 15.. trust me there will be others
just be her friend..
if it is meant to happen it will.
MAYBE UR TOO LATE. SHE MAY BE THE 1 THAT GOT AWAY. JUST KEEP BEING A LOYAL FRIEND SHE MAY COME AROUND IT MAY TAKE TIME AND AT THAT POINT IF UR NOT WITH NEONE, MAYBE U CAN WORK OUT
Hello Rizzlaz,
Go back to being the guy you were when you two first met. I’ll bet you did not attract her to you by being sappy and clingy.
Do NOT tell her how much you love her etc… That is the last thing you want to do. Girls like a guy that knows where he is going and how he is going to get there. Make sure this girl is not the only thing you got going on in your life.
Remember that the one who cares least about the relationship is the one who controls the relationship….
Good luck to you….
You’re still too young. You shouldn’t focus too much on being in love with a single person. There are a lot of other girls out there. But if you are really bent on getting back with her, you should focus on bringing something that she needs. She certainly did not break up with you for nothing. Try to find out what it is. And if you discover that it is something that you could change, then do it. Try to be better; be nicer, more patient, sweeter, more thoughtful, etc. Concentrate on making positive changes that she will appreciate. If she sees you have changed for the better, she may realize that she feels the same way for you again.
You can check out an ebook called Ex Recovery System by Ashley Kay. It has a lot of tips on how to get an ex back. I;;m sure you will benefit a lot from it.