How can I get my ex-boyfriend to want me back or miss me?! PLEASE HELP : ) im desperate : /?
Okay, so me and this guy have had a thing sense the beginning of the summer and we dated off and on throughout the summer and we’d break up at the stupidest things but we were always crazy about eachother and spent every second together, and he would always come back to me within the next week. Were in high school and he thought it would be hard to have a realathonship because we go to different highschools. He gets jealous really easily. But anyway about a month or so ago he broke up with me but we had been talking sense then because we still had feelings for eachother and we didnt want to have to deal with the responsibility of having a realathonship. Several weeks ago we got in a fight becasue he wouldnt text me back i guess he wasnt by his phone or something and im sort of the impatient type and i told him that i didnt even think i liked him anymore because he never responded ( i just say things like that without thinking) and he got mad and wouldnt text me back, so i guess i was annoying him and he told me just to leave him alone and not to talk to him ever again and move on because he didnt like me either. I left him alone for about a whole week, and thats been the longest time ive never talked to him before and it was really hard for me. So that weekend i was with my friend and she was like just text him and see how he is, so i texted him and he didnt reply and so i sent him really long texts of how immature he was for not talking to me and i guess i kinda over did it and he went off on me and told me how stupid i was and how he could do better then me, it really hurt me and my friends always thought he would come back to me but this time they all told me he wasnt going to and i should just get over him. all that week i was trying to get over him and not talk to him. The next weekend i was at my friends house and i was texting this guy my ex boyfriend was with and my friend was texing my ex boyfriend and they were both like you all should come over and i of course wanted to but my friend told me not to because it will just make my ex boyfriend think he can get me whenever he wants to so we ended up telling them we had better stuff to do. Later that night i texted my ex boyfriend telling him how much i cared about him and how much i wanted to be with him ( i was drunk and i dont know why i said that) and suprisingly he told me he missed me and he couldnt not have me in his life and he just caught up in highschool but he doesnt want a realathonship and we should just talk. I was really happy and so for about a week we talked and everything was good. He told me he wanted to see me and talk to me about things and i wanted to but my mom wouldnt let me. This weekend i told him that i think i might have moved on and i was confused between him and this other guy becuase he had left me for so long and i think it made him mad and he started being really short with me but he acted like it didnt bother him that i said that but he did say he cared. The next day he told me that he thinks we should just be friends,and i asked him why and he was like well you like that other guy and its just better if were friends. I asekd him why he thinks we should just talk and he said "because i started talking to other girls" i think he just says that stuff because i said taht i might like another guy so hes giving me a taste of my own medicine and trying to piss me off too (this isnt the first time he has said something like that) i was so upset and i went off on him and we got in an argument and he was saying shit like " i could hook up with so many girls if i wanted to" and he told me he was going to go back to ignoring me. We talekd it out and now i guess were gonna be friends..but it always turns into us liking eachother again. I asked him to hang out with me and my friend this weekend and he just said "maybe!" and i was like what else could you do? and he was like "hang out wiht my friends"…its like when were "talking" he is so sweet to me but when were not he is like a completely different person i think he still has feelings for me i just pissed him off by saying i liked another guy maybe becuase he told me that he started talking to other girls and thats why he wants to be friends..he always does this stuff..will someone PLEASSSEE help me im desperate and i just want him to want me back and be like he used to be with me. ive tried moving on but i cant! so any other suggestions? how can i get him to want me backk…? or do you think he will come back to me?(sorry this is so long and whoever reads this whole thing thankyou!)
Tags: eachother, Ex Boyfriend, feelings, highschools, impatient type, longest time, texts
to be honest it sounds to me that moving on is the best option. Time heals all wounds, trust me ive been through a lot and time does heal almost everything.
If he was to REALLY love you, he would try to fix things up. I think you both are being kind of stubborn lol so maybe you guys could have a chat, just you two. Maybe go to a cafe and talk things over, honestly. In a calm manner =] This will give both of you a pretty clear image of what you two want =] If it doesnt work then try moving on =] you might think this is your last love right now but your young so you will meet a lot of people =] you never know =] but i think before you decide on anything you guys should have a calm chat =] best of luck
Jinnie x
It’s time you realize, you can’t make anyone want or like you. He seems to have more problems, than you need to worry about.
And being desperate, won’t help in the least, in fact in makes it all the worse.
Have yourself a good long cry and recognize it’s all over and move on.
It happens to us all, at one or more times in our lives. You need to be realistic.
my eyes hurt man that was a long post so about your question try hooking up with one of his boys and make out with him all crazy and what not that should make him Jealous. but do this in front of the ex and if this doesn’t work just come clean to him tell him how you really feel about him.
This sounds like a miserable unhealthy relationship. You need to think about moving on and maybe growing up a little before you date again.
Other people’s feeling are not toys either.
You need to move on. But if you can’t or don’t want to here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you want to:
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Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.
if you desire to get your ex back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of your negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can’t achieve the goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Bad thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.
2.Don’t bother your ex boyfriend. Guys just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously him, [spin]text message him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start exercising and try to eat healthy foods. When looking good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, others will easily see it. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
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Hope it helps.