Question about getting over relationships?
March 28th, 2010 by admin | Filed in Getting Over An Ex
Ok, so my boy in college had a breakup with this girl he says he loved (and still loves) before he broke out to college (6 months ish ago). He still isn’t past it and I just tell him to get over it and start over
…but he asked me how and I had no idea what to tell him lol Any ideas?
ps- when i say my boy i mean my friend, not son 
also, I have tried having him go out with girls and even set him up with some of my dimes so he could get his mind off it, but he doesn’t want to go out.
Tags: dimes, Getting Over Relationships, girls
Your son is stuck in grief over his loss. He may need a few counseling sessions. He needs to change the way he is thinking to get beyond the past and his grief.
My husband of 10 years died last June and I attended 13 hours of Grief Share, a group of people who lost someone they love. There I learned to take one day at a time, take time to grieve, and eventually get on with my life.
Don’t dwell on the past. Get more involved in school. Find a hobby where you can accomplish something like a musical instrument. Don’t forget to pray for comfort and hope for the future.
time heals all, until then PBR. or get him with some one else.
i dont think there is a way..its different with everyone
usually it just takes sometime and going out with other people
its not easy to forget someone and get over them so just let him take his time
Tell him to make the most of being single, go out on the pull with his mates and generally live it up. If he’s still at college he’s too young to be hung up on one girl, he should be having the time of his life. Try encouraging him to take other girls out on dates and then he’ll realise what he’s been missing out on.
Tell him to get a new girlfriend he never had but if he don’t want to, just do stuff with him like activites with with him to get it off his mind.