what is the best way to heal a broken heart? right now i am stuck feeling empty. we did everthing together.?
April 4th, 2010 by admin | Filed in Getting Over An Ex
was with this guy for almost two years and he demolished my car in november after losing his job in october and hasn’t worked since. i still love him but it was very hard for me and told him several times he could leave…he never did. till recently he had gotten like 700 dollars now hes gone and i am broken hearted i waited for 5 months for him to get a job and because of a little pressure to get one hes gone…confused and broken hearted….what shall i do? i can’t eat or sleep went to the store and felt weird cause he’s always gone with me everywhere. help me to recover from my broken heart!!
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He seems like an irresponsable person. He was with you only when things were good, and fun. Doesn’t care about neither you nor himself when things going bad. He didn’t leave just because you were useful for him …
SO what are you expecting for ? There has been enough time for you to understand who he is … Would you want a person like that in your whole life ? Would you be happy having him with your relationship on and off, on and off … as things in life go up and down … instead of being the real man who love, help, and be your (some how physically and mentally) surpporter in all lifelong ?
And once if you were able to tell him to leave, that means he doesn’t mean much to you. Now of course at the first days being without him you feel an emptiness, it’s normal like every time you lat someone/something go, but this feeling will pass away soon …
Look forward girl, forget that dude guy, be strong and you’ll see there are plenty of choices for you out there … I think you are still very young … then you still have all your future in front of you …
Try to go out more these days, be with friends, family, look for something exciting to do (work out, hobbies, sports …) will help you a lot …
Wish you all the best for yourself !
Jesus
Take this time to find YOU. You are seriously lacking something if you feel you need to be with a boyfriend to go to the store. It sounds like you did the right thing and ran off a looser. Trust me, there will be a whole lot more in your life. Loosers, that is. A few boyfriends from now you will be shocked you ever dated the deadbeat.
I’m sorry you have to go through this, i cant even imagine being with out my fiance, we have been together almost 3 years and are getting married in June,… this may sound cliche, but i truely beileve it, since i myself had to recover from two broken hearts,
……(which were not as serious, but it still was hard, and i know that this must be even harder since it took so much of your time)….
TIME,…TIME,…TIME,..thats the only thing that helped me, in time you will forget him, hopefuly sooner, im saying this because obviously it didnt seem like he loved you very much,
he seemed selfish because he never payed you back for the car,…. he left you when he got a little cash, and im sure you had other problems that you arent mentioning.
SUGGESTION. girlfirends! they provide the best support, talk with them, pour out your heart to them, and they will make you feel better, just try it…. and with time, you will feel better, talk to me if you want! got_jesus1985@yahoo.com
also, take this as a good learning expirence,
Only time can heal a broken heart. Break ups are one of the most confusing things in the world! But we all know that. The best thing that you can do is love yourself and know that what ever happens, you’ll be okay. Time heals all wounds and sometimes makes you stronger. You may feel down now but things will eventually get better.
Please I’ve suffered from the same condition myself! It is very hard initially, but take heart the pain lessens with time! From what you’ve said about your ex he wasn’t worth it really! I mean you’ve realized it too!
So why are you still pining for him….to quote you, " he’s always gone with me everywhere." So you need to start doing things differently! Start a new hobby, go out with friends, hit the gym! – Do something physical, so you’ll have no energy to think about you know who…. Make a list of all the things you hated about him!
Go on with your life happily! If he’s willing to make the needed changes then allow him back with new rules!
Please never lose your self-respect for anyone!
hi… i been in your situations for so many times.. stuck with the memory of the person i fell in love.everything to me turns dark when i was broken hearted.but i tried to let go the person.Go out with your friends and never go to a place where you will remember him. the best way is to pray. God never give a test that will go beyond our capacity.
I’m sorry, I know it hurts when you have been with someone for that amount of time and then they are no longer around. The good news is you will get over him eventually. You should be glad. If you wanted him to be productive and work but he didn’t that sounds like a big problem. The bad news is it will take some time. A few months maybe. Knowing guys the way I do I can tell you this dude will probably come back to you once he spends his 700 but I wouldn’t want him. My advice would be get out, spend time with family, friends, keep active and wait for someone worth your time to come along. You will get over him.
You didn’t fall in love with him instantly. You will not get over him instantly. You said you told him he could leave but he never did, what if he had left when you told him? You would have been hurt anyway. I think you know he wasn’t meant for you. Why would you want a man who doesn’t like to work? What is he going to offer you?
It’s OK to feel the way yo feel right now. But I assure you, it will be temporary. One day you will realize that you just don’t care anymore! Trust me, it will happen.
In the meantime, try to spend time with friends. Keep yourself physically active. Go out. Try to have fun!! And if you believe in God, PRAY!! Tell him how you feel (He already knows, but is waiting for you to talk to him!) and ask him to give you strength…then you will see that not everything is darkness and sadness.
Wish you the best!! God bless you!!!!!