Why are women so fickle?

In 90% of relationships, the woman dumps the man. 90%!!!

Whats wrong with women? Either they don’t know what they want or they have ridiculous standards.. I think its both.

This is why men become cheaters and players… we assume you will eventually dump us anyway so why not beat you to the punch.
KA1227:

Oh please!! Women play the victim all day long so don’t call be out on that.

All you women know I’m right, thats why you can’t answer the question.

  1. Ashton G, 08 April, 2010

    I so fucking agree, its like they have multiple personalities one moment you think your really connecting to them and then you get a wall and then there making out with the mexican chilango who has the personality of a penis and you put on heat cream to your stomack thinking what the fuck did I eat and then realise you feel that natious gut wreneching dissolve of emotional intelligence to the confusion of complex emotion is actually something you call jelousy overshawdowed with a deep floresent blue moon. Youv’e hit the wall what the fuck do I do now? So many questions…. I remember that night very clearly I had head out on waht was to be the most beutifull adventure of my life. Last year at the age of 20 I was in a very lost place, gripped with drepession and isolation it life lost all meaning. During a crisis theres a list of all 5 human needs. They have a need to be loved. Its a state that most humans desire above everything but its not the most important need. If you don’t feel loved then we look for belonging and then if we don’t get belonging we look for acceptance last from the last is the very human need to be free. If we loose all of that then the only need left is the need to survive…and some almost including myself can’t even do that. But I had freedom because I had money and I dreamt of finding myself on an incredble adventure it was like a movie in my head. All in all because the rest up till the intense jelousy I felt witch I suppose is what the point to all of this is, its a really long story. Involving all of the fantiesies I had about the seedier side to life the subtaranians and the drug culture inadvertantly was I arrested for visa entry problems getting robbed numerous arrestted and imprisonment for visa problems and drugs but I was doing it with this girl, The reality and the fantasy kinda mixed I knew deep down that we were very different people but I really wanted to find a way of building a really good rapour with her but we didn’t click, I don’t totally blame myself because she sulked just as much as me and fucked up just as much. I was very aware that I was crashing and not trusting myself, its like I know whats right and whats wrong and what I need to do to maintain myself I loose confidence in thats part of my dependeny with women but this inner need It seems could in cultural terms be realted to a new thing called androgynis witch I suppose is what I am. My body is male and I’m more or less fine with it, only I’m fucking hot I really can’t complain that much, but I don’t identify with guys too well they really are a far strech for me to understand, maybee I’ve been brainwashed with cultural stereotypes they do seem to me more competative and in to sports and stuff so I’ve always been kidna sensitive and seemed to have an equal attachment to men and women in different ways, close with my sister and I really respected her she showed me a lot of what is right and wrong as she was 4 years older than me and the rest of the family seemed to ignor me she was a role model in a lot of ways, so we arrived on a beach and for some reason she wasn’t talking to me (I threw up on her stuff OMG I was so humiliated I felt terrible and I spent the whole night doing her laundry for her and the next morning I apologised sincerly and next thing I know is she’s staring through me, she was pissed off as hell. What more can you do at this point you’ve apologised and cleaned up her stuff, but no she takes interest in this fucking jerk it was my initial judgement of this guy, he irritated the hell out of me he was loud and obnoxious and threw his rubbish on the bus. I didn’t evgen wanna be there I had to stay in another place to get my passport retrive’d but we had financial commitments to stay together she was like a fucking wife so it hurt to think that she couldn’t trust me and that we’d meet up to sell the car we bought. I ignored it almost pretended I didn’t hear her mention about the car when she said she wanted to go to tulum so I just agreed to go because even though I was offended I wanted her to trust me and almost couldn’t beleive she had said that. So anyway we get on this bus and this guy who I had ran in to earlier was hassling me for money and it was hot and I din’t have the energy to understand his broken english and he asked me where I was from and I couldn’t be bothered I had cycled a long way following this girls angry cycleing due to me throwing up on her stuff. So this asshole asks me if I was gay and then fucking wait for it ask me to give up my seat for a woman. I rightfull said no i’m not because I knew exactly what it meant that I as a MAN witch I AM NOT COMPLETLEY should give my seat up for a WOMAN witch I am partly. And everyone is kinda laughing awkwardly because they were embarrassed that I wouldn’t give my seat up for a women. Now this girl was flirting with with and said "you teaching him manners?" My blood boiled. I tried to stay calm and acted as cool as I could but I had one thought "Loose the Chilango" I’ll find a ditch or something, I wasn’t serious of course but it did go through my mind for a split second. So I crashed I’ve lost the woman in my life that I look up to and respect who can show me wrong from right but she failed and I lost the respect I wanted to love her I think that was what it was I invented feelings for her and was in denial about all of the stuff I thought I had imagined it tursn out that I wasn’t as crazy as I thought I was and that things between us were pretty shitty allthought we shared some really good times . I still don’t get how you can be mad at someone for accidently throwing up afdter they apologied. I spoke to this women who said that I was in love with her, I was confused because I thought that jelously must mean love when it could just mean all of that. I lost my needs to be loved to be accepted to belong (third wheel) I had even lost my freedom stuck in mexico no passport or money) but I still had the need to survive and I did the story doesn’t end well and after hitchiking back to the states to think if I should tell her I was in love with her I got arrested at the border I had seriously messed up I hadn’t checked my bags or anything two male policemen, gloves torches, well after all of that I never got to see her again. Are women fickle? Thats a stupid question to ask.

  2. sentrynox, 08 April, 2010

    Where did you get this number? I have dump ALL of them myself… Never been dumped by a girl… So if your number is representative of your life experiences with women, then I would say, that you are a bad lover, that doesn`t care about its girl…
    Me I dump them, because I know what I want, and if I figure out, that its a fraud, then I get out!!

  3. little78lucky, 08 April, 2010

    i agree with above in my life and most girls i know it is the guy that does the dumping

  4. KA1227, 08 April, 2010

    Way to be a victim.

    EDIT: Yeah, they do, and I don’t put up with it from them either.

  5. M C, 08 April, 2010

    Cite your source.

    In the meantime: Why are people named Brad such lying whiners?

  6. BlackBear, 08 April, 2010

    You get what you give, and if most men are like the ones I’ve had the misfortune to run into over the course of my life, then it’s no wonder.

    Women have ideas of what they want, and so do men. We dump who we think doesn’t fit that.
    You sound like an angry young man. I think your problem has less to do with women and more to do with taking getting dumped personally.

    If you straighten up your attitude, you’ll find women who like you. If you decide to stay angry, then… we all know what will happen, then.

  7. man in search of answers, 08 April, 2010

    Brad i dont think that percentage is correct.

    All i can say is due to my ridiculous standards of machoism i almost lost my lady.

    But thank god for frinds from this wonderful section(like Rio Maderia ) i went back to her and she melted in my arms !!!!

    I know its hard for all those men and women who have had a bad deal but we must really move on.

    I wish all the best of luck in search for their loved one.

  8. Mellie, 08 April, 2010

    OK, most of the time women will dump ya first because they know it’s probably gonna come from you. So in that sense, we beat you to the punch.

    We know when trouble is brewing; and sometimes I’ve done it before he hurts me.

    The reason men are cheaters and players is because they are jerks – pure and simple. There is no justification for infidelity because you assume we have "ridiculous standards".

  9. Jess, 08 April, 2010

    How old are you? 15?

  10. arfblat, 08 April, 2010

    You’re horrible! How can you live with yourself! Honestly, I think you must’ve been dropped on the head as a child… or you were raised by an abusive alcoholic chauvinistic father…

    If your stats are true, the reason girls dump guys is because most of them or stupid self-centered *ssholes who don’t give a sh*t about anyone but themselves…

  11. Laela (Layla), 08 April, 2010

    All right I’m going to level with you. I have dumped men basically because I wanted to move on, of course I should’ve been more honest and told them I didn’t and there’s nothing I can do about that now, no crying over spilt tea now is there? No there isn’t. Some of those times I thought I knew what it was that I wanted; at least it seemed so, still the urge to move on was much stronger than really knowing what I wanted.
    When the guy is no longer the star attraction and even feels that way he leaves – yes that is bluntly true.

  12. Mike D, 08 April, 2010

    Women love a man unconditionally until they prefer someone else.

  13. Delicious, 08 April, 2010

    Ah….now I see….
    You do "appear" to have issues….b/c asking questions like these, does make you look like you’ve been hurt by women.

    Your stats are way off.
    Is this based on personal experience?
    Have 90% of your relationships dumped you?

    Personally, I’d suggest that you "self check/ look inward" and see if there’s anything you could have done differently to avoid the same circumsdtances in the future.
    Not all women have high standards, usually the quality ones do though.

    So if you dont mind low quality….get you a low standards girl!
    Or step up and work on your personal skills so you can "get in the game".

    People dump people that don’t measure up, they don’t dump the awesome ones. Good luck.

  14. get right, 08 April, 2010

    That could be said about both sides. You REALLY need to word ur questions better.

  15. katrina g, 08 April, 2010

    is that so? i think the dumping thing is pretty equal..perhaps in your relationships it has been 90% and the way you are..I do not blame them. But the overall ratio of dumper dumpee is most likely even.

  16. thatguy, 28 October, 2010

    Women dont have hearts of steel like men do. Men have more trouble falling in love, and when in love they have a hard time letting go. Women on the other hand have a fickle heart that can instantly fall in love and detach almost instantly with no words necessary.

  17. labowski, 17 April, 2011

    Dude, you are totally right… all this hostile feedback your getting on this page is because women get so angry when their flaws are pointed out. they are mad because you are right. women are emotional creatures that can love you one day and dump you the next because you dont fit their idea of who you should be. They expect too much and change their minds too often because honestly they dont know what they want all they know is that you should be exactly like the guy in the latest romance novel they are reading. your best bet is to find a woman and not a 20 something fickle girl. If your still too young to be dating an older woman than dont get close because women are spoiled pampered and selfish and you can never live up to their expectations. Oh, and for the whiney women I know will respond to this by attacking me and making assumptions, I am happily married to a great woman but i had to go thru alot of selfish b*tches before I found her and If you cant handle the truth of the matter then GO F*CK YOURSELF!

  18. Edward, 09 May, 2011

    I’ve noticed this myself, women are incredibly fickle. I’ve never known one to be as dedicated to the relationship as the man, they leave the instant something else comes along regardless of how well you’ve treated them and even if the new guy is 100 times worse. They do this because after they f*ck things up with the new guy they always expect us to be willing to take them back. C*nts.

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