my boyfriend started talking to his first love again and wants to go out for food should i be worried?
April 10th, 2010 by admin | Filed in Ex Boyfriend Back
he told me about this girl while we were in a "discussion" he said he loved her because she cared about him and was nice to him. anyways he started talking to her on face book. and he wants to go out to lunch with her. they haven’t even spoken for months, and hes been with me for 9 months, and they broke up when he was 15, hes now 19. i don’t know if i should we worried, but in the past when we’ve argued he wishes i was more nicer, and more appreciative. which i am but it seems like hes expecting so much of me.
Tags: 9 months, face book, first love, hes, lunch
i doubt he would still be hung up on an ex that long. especially from when he was so young. don’t worry about it and don’t make a big deal out of it. i’m a guy and i’m actually friends with most of my exes but i don’t think of them in *that* way anymore.
yes you should be worried
Unless he’s given you real reason to worry, then let it go. You said they haven’t spoken in a long time so more than likely it’s a strictly platonic meeting. Stop fretting and don’t be so insecure.
I’d be worried…
But you never know when they might just be talking, not getting ‘together’ again. Ask if you can go along.
I understand if your worried .. just talk to him about it.
Communication is an important part of a relationship. If he loves you, he’ll understand how you feel and he’ll reassure you.
yeah because theres a chance that he may like her again. BUT don’t act on it so quick
Just don’t act like you don’t trust him. Just keep an eye out, and if he starts flirting or something he shouldn’t be doing, pull him aside and talk to him. Hopefully everything works out for you!!
uh oh
he wants to dump you
They were 15. Truthfully, there’s a world of a difference between 15 and 19…they’ve both changed so much, and probably didn’t know what love was when they were 15. But, if he feels you aren’t nice and appreciative enough, you should ask him why, and try to understand why he feels that way…understanding is the key. But, honestly, past loves are a big deal. At least to me. If "the one that got away" ever worked his way back into my life, my husband would have reason to be very worried.
somewhat.