Best ways to get over a breakup? ?
I don’t know what to do.
He hasn’t even broken up with me yet. D: But he sent me a text message yesterday, saying he had bad news and wanted to tell me in person.
I’m thinking that his parents are making him break up with me. :/ I’m pretty sure, actually. (They don’t like our 3-year age difference.) Unless he’s moving somewhere, but.. that’s unlikely.
I’ve been crying all day. Everything I look at/hear/smell reminds me of him. :/ The worst thing is how stupid I was – I trusted him so much, he fed me such sappy lies – "we’ll be together forever," "I love you," "I’ll wait for you if you wait for me," etc. And I believed him! Damn, I’m a fool.
I can’t concentrate on anything! x.x I’m.. well, frankly, I’m miserable.
Help? I’m not going to be able to get anything done when I’m sobbing like this.
Tags: age difference, bad news, fool, parents, text message
parents …good intentions…but sometimes they try and replay their own lives through their children.
Parents are often very powerful people and sometimes selfless in pursuit of their children’s happiness. Sometimes they are misguided and selfish however.
You can’t change or control your boyfriends parents influence on him, only he can do that, but what you can do is have him question what he wants and needs.
Maybe the best thing for him is to break up….if it is you have to set him free…..you love him afterall…..by wanting the best for him you want the best for yourself and it is best for you to be with someone who does not want to be with you !!
Eat him!!
xo
If you your better off with out him then don’t worry about it…
You will be better in time…
its gonna suck in the beginning but the only thing that can heal how u feel is time. and in the mean time stay as busy as possible and surround urself with youre friends
yeah i know it sucks, i’m trying to get over it but it hurts. =/
Hun..if you feel that you waisted your time. then you need to make that time up! Time can heal anything! the first few days will be very diffacult, but in no time you will be over him. If he lied to you, you totally deserve better. Find someone that will treat you like you deserve to be treated!!!
IF you are completely sure that he’s gonna break up with you,
All you can do is think of his lies and tell yourself he’s not worthy enough to cry/sob for.
If thats not enough, try to do things to keep your mind occupied.
:} hope this helps.
time heals all wounds and its okay to feel like this your hurt and miserable and its just a reaction and its natural to do so when you think of the worst case scenario in this situation and especially when someone you love says i have bad news and want to tell you in person
First of all you need to make sure he wants to break it off.. you probably have it all wrong..but if he does then it does not make sense to stay in a relationship if the other person wants to end it!..just keep your dignity and let him go..God and time will heal your broken heart!..Good luck :p