How to make boyfriend's ex girlfriend back off?
Now Im thinking shes going a little crazy! K, so point is she still has feelings for him and says that she "loves" him. But shes the one who broke up with him. Now that we’re dating, Im thinking shes going looloo in the head! So she has thoughts of physically hurting me, I’ve heard. Shes telling my friends that she’ll do anything to make me and my boyfriend break up no matter what. K, so another thing to add to all that. Shes copying me! Haircut, the same she recently cut it. Dressing now the same, always wearing shorts like I do when she used to always wear jeans. What should I do about this girl? I’ve told my boyfriend how she hates me and wants to make us break up but she just won’t stop. She really needs to back off! Any advice? Thanks!=)
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WOW ok so i totally understand where you are coming from because i was recently in the same situation
.well…what i did was confront her about it…& i was like look i know you still have feelings for (insert name) but he is with me now and there is nothing you can do about it so move on and besides if he wanted you back he would be with you so stay out of our relationship
but if your not that kind of person…
you could always tell your boyfriend that she is making you uncomfortable and ask him to talk to her and let him tell her that he doesn’t like her anymore that way she cant say that you were making him not wanting her up & then she will hopefully get the message loud & clear!.
then if that still doesn’t work…
you could always confide in a teacher ot trusted adult and ask for their advice!!
Hope everything works out! Best of luck!
Hope i helped!
tell your boyfriend that this girl’s bothering you. if your bf really loves you, he’ll protect you and make sure nothing goes wrong.
if he doesn’t, then you know what to do.
ignore her jealous a** and keep it up with ur bf. if she hurts u physically, report it to the police. not the school. that way she knows ur serious.
Making Them Jealous
The ex- always gets the man back. There’s more of a connection with exes. Just trust me on this. You need to move out because bitch is fixing to hurt you. She belongs with him like Depenga and Cory Mathews on Boy Meets World when other girls and boys tried to step in
fck that bich up!!
girl step up to her face and just tell her her time is over that what she is gonna do about it. now is ur turn ur gonna let any other slut take what is ur?? god i hate girls like that.
TELL HER TO BACK OF OR YOUR CALLING THE COPS
confront her ina professional way. no cat fights or anyting. just say anything to get her off! and threats? thats adult territory too.
Unless she goes up to you or him and says the things that she has been saying to your friends, it is hear-say. Just ignore her and stay away from her. If she tries to get near you, tell her that she will back away and that she has no right to be near you. If she doesn’t listen, then you have grounds to go to the police.
talk to your bf. when she’s around, hug him and kiss him and do anything you can to get under her skin. plus, if you change up your style every day, she wont be able to copy it.
I hate girls like those. Eventually, you might have to confront her though. Explain your p.o.v.
she’ll get over it eventually.
sounds like someone is jealous, if that was the case i would kiss ur boyfriend in front of her, and if she says anything, have ur boyfriend back u up.
Man..that’s obsessive. You need to tell her straight up that it’s her loss that she left him, and that she doesn’t need to be talking about threatening you behind your back left and right. If your bf wanted her, he would have went back to her already. Case closed. As long as he doesn’t want her, don’t worry about it.
Beat the s h i t out of her !
break her nose or tell her to find someone else because she is desperate
Honestly, Your boyfriend should be the one taking care of this. You shouldn’t be the one worrying about her
Ok what I would do. Dont throw fists unless she hits you. If she talks smack to you then you talk back. Try to ignore her as much as you can, and tell your boyfriend. He might be able to do more then I can. GL let me know what happens
Well it since I don’t know your age my advice might not go for you, but here it is.
Give him a hickey and mark him as your territory.
Just tell him how you feel and explain that maybe we could talk about how he felt about you when you first started going out.
tell her to leave you guys alone or you’ll get a restraining order against her
haha. also his ex is probably really upset and jealous of you. she can’t have him now and people always want what they can’t have. try ignoring her and see what happens from there. good luck 
Had the SAME exact issue. My situation she just got WAY to out of hand. She actually grabbed my wrist and told me to get lost. My boyfriend got involved and it was a mess. But what I did, I just stood up to her. Just tell her that she’s crazy
The girl hasn’t said a word to me since. Hope it resolves<3
Oh wow, she sounds psycho.
You better be careful, girls are crazy sometimes, and do crazy things to get what they want. Um, I don’t have any advice for you, because you can’t control what she decides to do/say to people about you etc. I guess try to ignore this girl, because obviously, you WON. you have the man she wants. (: That should make you alittle happier. I know it must be a really annoying thing to deal with, but you can’t really do anything about it. But if she gets super psycho, like stalks you guys or something, call the cops! And im sure your bf will be there if she tries anything stupid.
well i would just give her the middle finger but ummm ya thas just me lol. (if it was a guy messing with my love thts what i wud do lol)
Kick her in the throat and be done with her!
THERE IS NOTHING 4 U 2 DO. HE HAS 2 BE THE ONE 2 STAND UP 2 HER AND TELL HER 2 GET A LIFE. SHE CANT BREAK U UP UNLESS HE LETS HER. HE MAY JUST BE LEADING HER ON A LITTLE. SO DONT BELIEVE EVERYTHING U HEAR FROM HER, BUT ALSO DONT BELIEVE EVERYTHING HE SAYS. HE PROLLY FINDS IT FLATTERING. HOWEVER IF SHE APPROACHES U DONT BACK DOWN BCUZ BULLIES CAN SMELL FEAR AND SHE WILL USE IT AGAINST U. IF SHE SAYS ANYTHING 2 U LOOK HER IN THE EYE AND SAY "I’M 2 MATURE 4 THIS, IF U THINK U STILL HAVE A CHANCE WITH HIM THEN U WOULD BE IN HIS FACE, AND NOT MINE" ULTIMATELY THE CHOICE IS HIS
tell your boyfriend that this girl’s bothering you. if your bf really loves you, he’ll protect you and make sure nothing goes wrong. is what you would do and if that doesnt work well then he doesnt really love you
tell your bf what she is saying and also go up to her or tell her over the phone and be striaght forward say "bitch you better back off its not my fualt you are not with him he is over you get over him he is mine and if you mess with us i will kick your ass" it rlly works and say other crap to like make her be like oh she likes him alot scare her and tell her to stop copying you cuz its annoying and she is a fucking lil skanky wanna be slut idk ahaha
don’t date in high school. too much drama. won’t last 98% of the time.
if your boyfriend loves you, and wants you, then she wont matter at all, shel just be anoying and make herself look like an idiot because youl have the guy and she wont
think about it- if he stays with you, then if she has the same hair and clothes and trys to act like you, itl mean he likes it better on you and with you doing it
if she trys to start something, tell your boyfriend to tell her to backoff, because she isnt going to try to hurt him, instead, shel suck up to him and do it
good luck with the psyco b****
yepp weve all been there. first off make sure your man doesnt want to be with her because since she broke up with him its very possible he mite still have feelings for her. however chances are she broke up with him because she didnt want him but now that he has someone else she thinks she wants him. its the whole we want what we cant have thing. stand up for your self make her look stupid for copying you tell her that she should back off she had her chance and now hes yours tell her your not scared of her that usually makes people back off and chances are she wont hit you shell back down. and a way to make her leave your man alone? tell her he told you her sex was whack and that her coochie smelled then shell be so mortified and angry with him she wont pursue him any longer! ya gotta be a b!tch to get anywhere in life.
if you have already said your peace to her and she still cant respect the fact that you are with him now then you should take the back seat and let him deal with the situation. its really not your place to tell her to back off because your man could very well be telling her one thing and you another. never put yourself in harms way for any man. he should be man enough to put her in her place if he cares about you. she is only doing what he is allowing her to do. so tell him to put her in her place or you should leave him. if he doesn’t care about your safety and respect your relationship, he doesn’t deserve you or want you for the long haul anyway.
Ok so You have told the boyfriend how it;s hurting you – has he told her to back the hell off – in a way where she would know he does not like her anymore??
The only way she can keep doing this is if she still thinks it’s game on with him – what makes her prolly more in ur face is that she has a competitive nature – girls like that only keep going at you when they think there is a winning goal for them ( him ) Get him to stop this – if it comes from you or a mates she will not give a crap and keep going after him and trying to piss you off.
Once he tells her – in a harsh way she should back off – but given time the more you and ur boy stick together she will back off.
If he wont do this – then maybe he likes you both going nutts over him – that would mean he is being selfish and not giving a crap about both ur feelings…..
she is obsessed and she may not stop. idk if ur violent but it alwayz works for me.. .
if that isnt ur flavour maybe u can TRY and tell her that u arnt intimidated by her but u need her to stop and stop now and stop disrespecting herself. (this is optional) tell her how she can just kiss her lost dreams away cuz u have what she will never get again . let her kno u dnt want 2 fight about it but u will stand ur ground. i hope you find a solution!
The problem is really a simple one in spite of the discomfort you may feel . It is also not an issue that you can resolve.There are two points here. 1) You can not make anybody do anything they do not want to do or are interested in doing .So no matter how much your boyfriend’s ex tries to interest him again , she would fail if she gets no willing partner or encouragement no matter how hard she tries to remake herself in your image. 2) If you boyfriend loves you, does not want his ex again, then she will fail.Unless he encourages her, sends her mixed messages, is still in love with her, and wants to get back with her, he will say no to her. In your presence, he would tell her that he loves you and not her, that he has no plans to leave you, and she must put a stop to all her efforts and attempts to cause trouble.He has to take measures and take steps to convince his ex that it is over ,finito and that he has a woman with whom he is very happy. When all is said and done it is up to him.