My GF wants to breakup because she does not feels the same love that she had earlier?How to overcome pain?
April 16th, 2010 by admin | Filed in Getting Over An Ex
Me n my GF are in love from last 6 years. It was one of the best thing ever happened in my life. It is an Long distance love. We have met couple of times. But its a year now we havent met. Now all of sudden she says that she does not feels the same for me. She sayd it just happened all of sudden tat theres no feeling for me and wants to quit our relationship. I am still under shock that how this can happen>? She has taken few months now to decide her final verdict. But this has brought a total distress in my life. Everything seems like stopped moving. My question is y after 6 years of strong relationship, such sudden end has to happen..?
Tags: 6 years, final verdict, gf, long distance, love, Moving, relationship, shock
Accept her decision, respect her decision, be strong and move on. I know it hurts but you have to be honest with yourself, you only met a couple of time and everything else was built on the possibility of a relationship. Some people need more than just talking to someone over the phone, computer, and through letters. Some people need physical contact, they want to be able to touch someone and be able to run down the street to see their love.
Distance is a burden on relationships and unfortunately your ex decided it wasn’t the route she wanted to take. Remember what you had, be happy that you were able to love this long, and then move on and give yourself the opportunity to be loved by someone new.
Best Wishes and Good Luck!!
get tanked with some Budweiser
distance is hard to overcome, we covet what we see daily
There are two reasons.
1. She got connected to someone better.
2. You may be boring after all. You have to give more color to the relationship by finding her interest and you taking some common interest in that too.
3. The link may not be necessarily a common interest but can be a complimentary interest too. Like singing and dancing..
Six years is a long time for a long distance relationship without seeing each other but a couple of times. People need to touch.
How can you feel yourself that it is a true relationship like that? Why do you feel that is somehow loving or fulfilling? Six years!!! Are you in jail??
Im sorry to say, but she must have been thinking about ending this with you for awhile. People just dont put 6 years of a relationship behind them all of the sudden. You need to respect her decision – if you love her, then let her go. In the meantime, surround yourself with friends and family, go out more often, read more books. Having a strong social network is the key to healing after a broken heart. Make sure you have someone to lean on, and it will get easier as time goes by.
Women and weather they can change from good to bad in no time sunny one minute hurricane the next there is no cure for the heart except time and a little beer my advise try to get over this relationship find a new love and make this one a little closer to home good luck
Find another love near you.