Comments on: My wife says she loves me "very much" but she is not "in love" with me? http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/3526/my-wife-says-she-loves-me-very-much-but-she-is-not-in-love-with-me/ Your trusted and independent reviews of the most effective "Getting Your Ex Back" guides online Sat, 28 Jan 2012 13:41:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: cool breeze http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/3526/my-wife-says-she-loves-me-very-much-but-she-is-not-in-love-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-16985 cool breeze Sun, 18 Apr 2010 14:25:23 +0000 http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/3526/my-wife-says-she-loves-me-very-much-but-she-is-not-in-love-with-me/#comment-16985 Sounds like you are both doing all the right things to make it work..Christmas party..look into her eyes and smile a lot..dance with her and hold her close.. Sounds like you are both doing all the right things to make it work..Christmas party..look into her eyes and smile a lot..dance with her and hold her close..

]]> By: lolita (Asmaa) http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/3526/my-wife-says-she-loves-me-very-much-but-she-is-not-in-love-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-16986 lolita (Asmaa) Sun, 18 Apr 2010 14:25:23 +0000 http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/3526/my-wife-says-she-loves-me-very-much-but-she-is-not-in-love-with-me/#comment-16986 yeah you guys will be ok because u love her and she loves you too deep inside yeah you guys will be ok
because u love her
and she loves you too deep inside

]]> By: Queen Agnostic http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/3526/my-wife-says-she-loves-me-very-much-but-she-is-not-in-love-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-16987 Queen Agnostic Sun, 18 Apr 2010 14:25:23 +0000 http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/3526/my-wife-says-she-loves-me-very-much-but-she-is-not-in-love-with-me/#comment-16987 well, its been what a week of doing dishes, laundry and helping with the kids and your done kissing up... new updated version.... whoa buddy.... stop right there.... your not listening to her are you? she said she needs help, she works more hours than you, she fell out of love due to resentment (like anyone does) and you figure after a week of pulling some weight your done...... Newsflash..... just the fact she is sleeping with you is positive because I wouldnt sleep with someone I wasnt in love with.... your wife is basically telling you she doesnt feel in love with you (because she is mad) but she loves you.... which is the real stuff... the in love stuff is the infatuation we create in our relationships that eventually dies with the grind of life and the fact we start taking eachother for granted. If you want your wife to be in love with you... keep pulling some weight around the house... be a good father and husband... take her seriously and listen when she speaks..... dont worry about all the fluff like flowers and romantic dinners.... working as much as she does she would appreciate the housework you do more. I told my husband eons ago... dont waste money on roses, I would rather you buy me a new coffee grinder so I can have fresh coffee in the morning... and make me a pot once in awhile...... thats love... when people put too much emphasis on hallmark moments, they set themselves up for failure.... reality is we are busy trying to survive, we get lost in the shuffle and forget what is important.... and what is important is your wife and your kids..... Your wife is also becoming self sufficient and I think that scares you.... now its a question of her wanting to be with you, not having to be because a nurse anesthesiologist makes good money.... so perhaps thats got you going as well. Its actually better if someone stays with you because they want to, not because they have to.. it means they love you...... I wouldnt put too much weight into the old " I love you but I am not in love with you" ... people dont even get what they are saying... its called being married for a long time and forgetting what infatuation is.... I feel the exact same way at times.... I love my husband but that butterfly feeling is gone and rightly so as I know everything there is to know about him... he is predictable... he is my best friend and I cant imagine life without him. As for the company christmas party... just treat her like the most beautiful woman there... be attentive and if she allows hold her hand in public..... but dont be pawing her... well, its been what a week of doing dishes, laundry and helping with the kids and your done kissing up… new updated version…. whoa buddy…. stop right there…. your not listening to her are you? she said she needs help, she works more hours than you, she fell out of love due to resentment (like anyone does) and you figure after a week of pulling some weight your done……

Newsflash….. just the fact she is sleeping with you is positive because I wouldnt sleep with someone I wasnt in love with…. your wife is basically telling you she doesnt feel in love with you (because she is mad) but she loves you…. which is the real stuff… the in love stuff is the infatuation we create in our relationships that eventually dies with the grind of life and the fact we start taking eachother for granted.

If you want your wife to be in love with you… keep pulling some weight around the house… be a good father and husband… take her seriously and listen when she speaks….. dont worry about all the fluff like flowers and romantic dinners…. working as much as she does she would appreciate the housework you do more. I told my husband eons ago… dont waste money on roses, I would rather you buy me a new coffee grinder so I can have fresh coffee in the morning… and make me a pot once in awhile…… thats love… when people put too much emphasis on hallmark moments, they set themselves up for failure…. reality is we are busy trying to survive, we get lost in the shuffle and forget what is important…. and what is important is your wife and your kids…..

Your wife is also becoming self sufficient and I think that scares you…. now its a question of her wanting to be with you, not having to be because a nurse anesthesiologist makes good money…. so perhaps thats got you going as well. Its actually better if someone stays with you because they want to, not because they have to.. it means they love you……

I wouldnt put too much weight into the old " I love you but I am not in love with you" … people dont even get what they are saying… its called being married for a long time and forgetting what infatuation is…. I feel the exact same way at times…. I love my husband but that butterfly feeling is gone and rightly so as I know everything there is to know about him… he is predictable… he is my best friend and I cant imagine life without him.

As for the company christmas party… just treat her like the most beautiful woman there… be attentive and if she allows hold her hand in public….. but dont be pawing her…

]]> By: Tanya http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/3526/my-wife-says-she-loves-me-very-much-but-she-is-not-in-love-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-16988 Tanya Sun, 18 Apr 2010 14:25:23 +0000 http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/3526/my-wife-says-she-loves-me-very-much-but-she-is-not-in-love-with-me/#comment-16988 ok this is gonna sound weird but i bought my aunt and uncle a book called THE LOVE DARE by stephen and alex kendrick its from the writers of FIREPROOF and its like a 40 day step by step guide on things you can do for your spouse nothing pricey book costs 15.99 and i gave it to them after they had been married for 20 years and started having problems.....after 40 days their relationship improved and are going strong... its just a suggestion on top of counseling. good luck but i think you both will make it since you both love each other and want to work things out. ok this is gonna sound weird but i bought my aunt and uncle a book called THE LOVE DARE by stephen and alex kendrick its from the writers of FIREPROOF and its like a 40 day step by step guide on things you can do for your spouse nothing pricey book costs 15.99 and i gave it to them after they had been married for 20 years and started having problems…..after 40 days their relationship improved and are going strong… its just a suggestion on top of counseling. good luck but i think you both will make it since you both love each other and want to work things out.

]]> By: Sashi http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/3526/my-wife-says-she-loves-me-very-much-but-she-is-not-in-love-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-16989 Sashi Sun, 18 Apr 2010 14:25:23 +0000 http://howtogetmyexbacktips.com/3526/my-wife-says-she-loves-me-very-much-but-she-is-not-in-love-with-me/#comment-16989 wow thats a big question, took me lot of time to read... lol buddy, u really tried a lot to save ur marriage. very good. but ur wife is not really trying to appreciate the change. its a good decision that both of u decided to go for counselling... here are some things that could spice up your life: be romantic (not just mechanical sex, but with lot of romance and sex) surprise her with little gifts like roses etc; go to church when ever u can try doing things together ( like helping her in washing dishes along with her) always have a SMILE on your face ( not a stupid smile but the one which she likes) dont give her the feeling that u are desparate for her, at the same time make her feel that she is important. make yourself worthy of becoming important to her. best of luck. i hope your wife also tries as much as u are trying to save the marriage. your wife would be a fool if she cant forget the past despite the efforts you are putting in. dont freak out if she leaves u bcoz it's not your fault that she cant forget the past. hopefully someone better might come into your life. i think she is just threating u more and more bcoz u are kneeling before her. wow
thats a big question, took me lot of time to read… lol

buddy, u really tried a lot to save ur marriage. very good.
but ur wife is not really trying to appreciate the change.
its a good decision that both of u decided to go for counselling…

here are some things that could spice up your life:
be romantic (not just mechanical sex, but with lot of romance and sex)
surprise her with little gifts like roses etc;
go to church when ever u can
try doing things together ( like helping her in washing dishes along with her)
always have a SMILE on your face ( not a stupid smile but the one which she likes)
dont give her the feeling that u are desparate for her, at the same time make her feel that she is important.
make yourself worthy of becoming important to her.

best of luck.
i hope your wife also tries as much as u are trying to save the marriage.
your wife would be a fool if she cant forget the past despite the efforts you are putting in.
dont freak out if she leaves u bcoz it’s not your fault that she cant forget the past.
hopefully someone better might come into your life.
i think she is just threating u more and more bcoz u are kneeling before her.

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