How to make him fell in love with me again?
I am european my lovely boyfriend is indian Sikh…we are together 9 month…i feel our realtionship is getting colder and colder…i love him…i am trying to do my best…i know he loves me…he is my first man…the same as i am his first woman…i want our relationship continue…how can i attract him…how can i make him look at me different.
We have been through so much of crap i am changed but still he doesn’t trust me. Its very hard. I don’t know where to start.Our biggest problem is that we don’t understand each other.I think the problem is our culture differences. If anybody could give me advise or at least cheer me up…i just need support. 
Thanx in advance!
Tags: Cheer, crap, culture differences, first man, first woman, love, realtionship, relationship
I think u guys need to have a serious conversation about why he doesn’t trust u and what do u have to do to regain his trust. People in different culture date all the time. U guys have to learn to communicate, listen to each other, TRUST, and comprise. Talk to him
i am also having many issues with my partner and feel as if he doesnt see me the way he used to,,, maybe take a few steps back, that way he can miss you, dont see each other as often and this i know will be hard because im having a hardtime going a day without my bf but it will make you guys miss each other,,,, send him sexual text messages tell him you want to do things to him and try new things,,,,,,really i need to wait to see what other answers you get because even though we’re not broken up i feel very lonely and heart broken…… good luck i know how you feel
Uh-oh – cultural differences could be the thing. Culture or not if he was in to you…it would be a different situation that you’re in. Maybe he is going through a rough time. Give him space and give yourself space. Love isn’t all fireworks, you know. Create memories together or create some for yourself. I’m sorry you feel him getting colder – maybe the warmer weather will help. Can you join a Sikh group so that you can learn more about his culture? Maybe he would like that….
I’m replying because it struck me that you started out with the racial/cultural reference. I’m sorry you’re in distress, but I must say there doesn’t even appear to be a relationship to save. It seems to me that you’re grasping at straws with this cultural difference issue. You’re in love and it’s hard for you to see that he’s not responding, period. Been there, done that, believe me, i understand the pain. There are no magic spells… move on. Good luck!
He comes from very stringent culture. Things are always going to be difficult because compromise is not something his culture likes to do.
You would have to be willing to give up everything you believe to be with him. He will never give up who he is for you.
Your heart will say you can do that – the truth is, you can do that for a little while then the real you will pop to the surface and things will get ugly.
One person changing never works.
Maybe it’s time to just move on and accept that unless he is willing to change too it just will not work out.
I wish you the best.