How do I heal this broken heart?
This guy works with me. I fell in love with him a long time ago. I dream of him sometimes and smile constantly when he calls me. Maybe he doesn’t undersand. I never wanted to tell him and look dumb.
Last week he wrote me messages saying he hard I want to date him. I avoided the question and asked him if he wanted to. he said "sure so do you" I didn’t say yeah, cause I got afraid.. but told him I thought he was sexy and we should hang outside of work. He said sounds good. After that though, he hasn’t spoke to me. I’ve tried to text him 2 times, but I’m not going to anymore. I don’t chase guys.
I feel like him asking me about dating was just to play with my mind and feelings. My heart is pretty much broken now. I just want to forget about him & the feelings I’ve developed.
How do you move on from someone you work with & have to speak to daily? How do I get him to view me as a strong woman? Did I do something wrong or what kind of game was he playing?
I’m in love with him. I have been for a year. He gives me these huge butterflies that my ex fiancee or nobody ever has.
But I want to move on since he’s no longer talking to me for no reason. It’s hurting me.
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From what you posted, it seems to me the only one playing a game was *you*. He asked you a direct question and gave you a direct answer. You, however, tap-danced around and wouldn’t tell him anything. You have no one to blame for your broken heart except yourself, because you had your chance and you blew it.
If you want to get over him, just steer clear of him as much as you can and do things to get your mind off of him.
P.S. Did it ever occur to you that the reason he stopped talking to you is because you basically rejected him and *he* is hurting??
"sure so do you" simple yes or no question.
anything else means no
you "fell in love" then when he talks to you,
you want to move on.
strong woman part needs work.
I think you were the only one playing games. He asked you an honest straight forward question and you kinda blew him off. Sounded like he was interested in you. The problem with playing games is someone always loses.
Do yourself and him a favor, go talk to him tell him you wanted to go out with him but you got scared and if he like to still go out you would love to go out with him.
Just be honest with him, if he really wanted to go out with you he will still want to go out with you. If not, at least you know for sure and can move on to someone else that does want to go out with you.