How do you get over the pain of a breakup?
May 2nd, 2010 by admin | Filed in Getting Over An Ex
I wanted to break up but it still hurts. We were together for a year and it just seems very lonely right now. We broke up yesterday but it hurts. What do I do to help?
we broke up because I just wasnt into the relationship anymore. We loved each other VERY much and he was practically my other half. I asked him how he felt about the relationship and well he told me he was done. I was planning on breaking it off later but I guess he didnt want me to hurt him, he wanted to do the hurtin.
Tags: hurtin, relationship
with time
all I can say is to give your heart time to bleed him/her out, and when it’s time the heart will mend it’self. Aight, and when yo’ done, if you’d like some ‘company’ gimme a call
Just know that everything happens for a reason, and there must be a reason you guys broke up. You are better than him, just know that. Don’t think of the negative, don’t think of what you could have changed. There is someone better out there for you. Get well soon!
this must be very hard
just think of all the reasons why you broke up, dont think of the good times, try and pre-occupy your mind and just spend time with your friends.. each day will get better and better
good luck x
I can feel your pain as i broke up with a guy i was dating for a yr a few months ago. There are times where you ll feel lonely or sad and miss him and want to call him but DONT!!!! There is a reason why you broke up and u need to remember that. A good way to help you stay srong and feel better is to hang out with friends or tell them how your feeling, friends can be an amazing support system. Also, if you are getting the urge to call him write down a list of PROS and CONS about him and the relationship u had. I guarantee you will have more CONS and whenever you feel sad or get the urge to call him just read all the CONS and that urge will go away. Trust me it works
well you have to go through stages. look i dont wanna sound like a psychiatrist but its the truth.
you gotta accept what happened. and move on.
its not as simple as it may sound.
i know you must be feeling crappy, and your heart aches, and you feel like well… like its pretty much the end of the world and you keep asking why in the h-e-double L this d@mn thing happened but sweetie? it did
and the way to get over it is to do something. pull all your anger, your sadness, just ALL your mixed emotions and just choose to do something and transfer all you feelings into energy and just give it ALL YA GOT.
sweets, the saying is true, you gotta date all the wrongs, the loosers, the heartbreakers, in order to find the one right guy.
go out and do something exciting. go jogging, go to the beach, take a vacation to Las Vegas, N.y. San Fo…
write a book…
trust me you’ll be better off living life to the fullest than regretting the past.
cuz’ the past, or what happened yesterday doesnt matter, what matters is today, and tomorrow, and what’ll happen, and whats yet to come.
goodluck sweetie