My girlfriend of 4 years and I have been broken up for a little over 2 months now. we were trying to work it out but we got in another big fight and now she says she doesnt feel the same way about our relationship. We have broken up several times before, but we always got back together. im not so sure this time, and I have been freaking out lately. I know she still loves me, because she has told me, but she is dedicated to getting over me. so much so, that she avoids me. We both go to college together and the semster is over this week. we will both be returning home for teh summer, but I go back for summer classes after being home for only a week. I know were gonna be around each other at parties, bars, ect. How can I get her to feel the same way about our relationship again. I have already tried to tell her how much I love her, and she believes me but says she wants me to be happy but she says she "knows it cant ever be the same" and she "doesnt feel the same anymore". how can that be if she still loves me. She says we could POSSIBLY date in the future, but she needs time, and she didnt really even want to say we could later because she "didnt want to get my hopes up". I cant help but feel this week in town when I see her a couple times will be my last shot at getting her back. I havnt been talking to her, and I wont until saturday when im gonna see her at a party. Shes the only one for me. Someone please give me some advice on what to do. Im all out of ideas

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