How do you best deal with breakups?
May 10th, 2010 by admin | Filed in Getting Over An Ex
I recently got dumped by a boy I had been with for 7 months. I am ok and have been strong and will continue to be strong. I am just wondering how other people deal with it. Are you a boy basher? A friendship maintainer? A cryer? Or are you the type that forgets it ever happened?
Tags: 7 months, breakups, friendship, People
I think each relationship calls for a different way of dealing with it. I don’t believe in such thing as a set personality. You are the way you are according to the circumstances…but this time I will forget it ever happened
Just because you break up with someone doesn’t mean you can’t still be friends. So…love didn’t work for you two, maybe friendship can?
I go out and date ten other girls.
I suggest that you go out and date ten other guys.
i try and stay friends with them. if i really liked him i would be hurt and maybe if i liked him enough cry a couple times and dream about them..
I cry for a little, put everything in a shoe box, tape it up ,call my best friend and try and figure out if I did the right thing by ending the relationship
well i try to avoid any kind of contact or communication with him until i am entirely sure i am over him. we broke up for a reason and keeping in contact keeps my feelings alive and it only hurts knowing that i cant have him. so i say avoid him and then you could be friends once youre really sure youre over him. and yea i cryyy for a very long time.
I’ve gone through the same thing, what i do is, play lots of sports because it will take your anger out and you will focus more. Hang out with friends they will get your mind off of him, and have a good laugh too it will make you feel better. Listen to music. Don’t be afraid to cry too. The right guy will come, just be patient
i go and something i enjoy with a freand or by my self
I was with my ex for 2 years then she dumped me. I cried a lot, I was pretty depressed, felt like life wasn’t meaningful anymore. I don’t really know how I got through it, I wrote a lot of poems about how i felt, cause I couldn’t talk to anyone about it cause I would just start crying like mad.
Hehe. This is easy.
If he doesn’t want to be with me anymore.
Then I must be too good for him!
:] Being optimistic and confident in yourself after a break-up is always great.
I go and hang out with friends and family.
get real busy with doing good things for yourself. study harder, work harder, never lie about and think about it. keep moving those muscles until you start accomplishing things. something to be proud of. get what i mean? turn a bad thing into a good thing. turn a lemon into lemonade. dont watach negative tv, listen to negative people or read negative bs. work and rise up.
Cryer, and eater.
…I don’t deal with breakups very well either darlin….but then find and show me a breakup that has ever actually gone well sweety. Breakups are simply time capsuled miserable painfull moments that if allowed will soon pass us by swiftly……especially we need swiftly so that we can significantly move into the next moment with a new person honestly……WHEW…..was that enough for ya darling? Rebounding exercises the ability to move on quickly from one thing to the next seriously. People are allowed to grieve after a relationship for certain….but not for forever people….get moving swiftly….or get left in the dust feeling lonely. God and time wait for no one sweetie….not even you and me reasonably….are we cool babe?