Can i get my long distance ex-boyfriend back?
to put it short, me and my ex-boyfriend (long distance) were together for over a year but have been broken up for about 2 months now. he kind of changed for the worst (drugs and drinking) lately yet i still love him.. whenever he talks to me nowdays (random, short texts) he usually is just very sarcastic and doesn’t take me seriously, at least not from what i see. im a sophomore in high school and he’ll be starting his first year of college in the fall. the other night we texted eachother until about 3 in the morning and he randomly said that he missed the special moments we’ve had but then changed the subject. from what i can see anyway it appears he’s moved on but i was just wondering if you think there is ANY chance in h*ll of getting back together with him, with what he said the other night? ive done the begging and ive kinda just given up lately.. i might sound really silly but we really did love eachother alot back then and i at least dont want him to just forget about me. help!!
p.s. – towards the end of our relationship, he kind of got new friends which i think is the main reason for his recent drug and drinking marathon – he used to do that stuff before we went out, but he knew i disapproved, so he quit but now he’s started again. and i just have this state of mind that he IS in college now and all he’s interested in now is some one night stands with a bunch of random girls and he is for sure going to wonder what the heck he was doing with someone over 1,000 miles away from him .. yeah
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You need to move on, this "relationship" isn’t going anywhere. And you are not helping yourself by staying in contact with him. BREAK ALL TIES with him, if you really want to get over him. Good Luck!
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Don’t do it.
You broke up with him for a reason, don’t forget that.
Love alone isn’t enough. There will be other men.
It sounds to me like you experienced some good love which then went sour. I don’t think the going bad part was your fault was it?
He was the one who seriously messed up. You can feel good that you had love and know that you will have it again.
I think you are worthy of a new love who is more positive(not sarcastic) and who is kinder to you.
This ex-love is probably just feeling insecure because he went the wrong way and wants you to still love him, despite his mistakes!
I think you deserve someone better because this guy doesn’t respect your love for the precious gift it is. Give your love to someone more deserving, who can give it back to you!
You have a lot of things going against you. It might be better to ask yourself how things would really work if you were back together. Long distance college relationships are tough to manage.